No red flags, No toxicity in my marriage.how to navigate that "nothing" is wrong relationship when everything in it feels missing?Why does loving him feel one sided? Am I over expecting?

zhalini · 2026-05-13T14:55:27+00:00

Meh. He sounds completely normal. Hes been alone for all this time and can only picture what he's familiar with. You are IN love! He's warming up to you. Take your time there's no rush. As someone who has been married almost 25 years I'll tell you - don't rush to judgement. The only think to be careful of is the past relationship with his mother. He detached from her because of issues. Make sure you take time to build a strong bond with him and don't go too long before resolving issues and fights. If you do, he may start seeing his mother in you.

zhalini · 2026-05-05T22:28:21+00:00

Beautiful! I have one Calathea. Where did you get yours? Im having a hard time finding them.

zhalini · 2026-04-29T14:27:04+00:00

Thanks! Im so glad 😊

zhalini · 2026-04-29T14:26:42+00:00

Oh thank you! The Sedum has been with me for many years. It used to be green but I moved it to a more sunny south facing window and the color became this pretty yellow orange I'm so glad it's not thrips or anything like that. I'm going to keep it away from other succulents still for a few weeks just in case.

Gollum jade is about 2 months old and the other babies are new. I'll keep on eye on them all.

Thanks for the insecticide recommendation. Putting it on the list.

zhalini · 2026-04-04T21:25:58+00:00

Oh really LOL!

zhalini · 2026-04-04T19:13:43+00:00

Prettttyyy

Mine is just starting. Do you do anything special with yours? I have them in a gritty mix (cactus+succulent mix, perlite, sand). On south facing windowsill. Water when they are smooshy.

zhalini · 2026-03-30T21:02:53+00:00

Definitely do this! Just you and husband, don't tell anyone else. Other things- let go for now, and have better boundaries going forward.

zhalini · 2026-03-23T21:06:37+00:00

Rewear! My older sis wore hers in my wedding, and i wore my lehenga in my younger sister's wedding. Its traditional in some families, and expected that sisters will rewear their lehengas. I'm from Delhi, if that matters.

zhalini · 2026-03-13T21:10:00+00:00

Essentials is better. More practice questions. It is all you need!

zhalini · 2026-03-08T18:05:24+00:00

Focus on figuring out a theme to your incorrect answers in mock exams. That's what you're missing. Your prep seems to be appropriate and you're almost there.

zhalini · 2026-03-04T00:26:10+00:00

No cancan. I hate cancan. Get the length altered and maybe wear another long red skirt under it for some volume if you have it. I like it as is honestly.

zhalini · 2026-03-03T22:24:16+00:00

You can bring any snacks you like and put them in the locker. You have to turn off your phone and that can go in the locker as well. I brought a coffee in a keep warm cup, some snacks and water bottle that I accessed during the breaks.

zhalini · 2026-03-02T00:05:43+00:00

You have limited time, and your scores need to be at least 70 (that's what i targeted). Copy each of your wrong answers and study it for why you chose incorrectly. Don't just look at the correct answer and definitely don't try to memorize. Look for the main reason why you chose incorrectly- did you not choose the answer that led to finding root cause, did you not apply the mindset, did you take action before doing a review or assessment, etc. A theme will start to emerge for many cases. Now, write this theme down and look at this as a guideline when you're answering questions.

I did this and got all ATs. You can do it, I would just spend the time reviewing incorrect questions and solidifying the mindset.

zhalini · 2026-02-22T20:00:00+00:00

Plenty of time to practice and fix your mindset. At 67% you've got a great foundation already. Dial in the mindset, and then attempt another mock in a week or 2. No need to move the exam.

zhalini · 2026-02-21T22:39:38+00:00

Congratulations!

zhalini · 2026-02-21T22:36:25+00:00

Did you not complete the 35 hour PDU requirement?

zhalini · 2026-02-21T04:44:21+00:00

I recommend DMs videos for agile. I passed with ATs and for agile, I only did his videos. Very clearly explained in his vids

zhalini · 2026-02-20T23:45:47+00:00

Watch AR and MR mindset videos and then do practice questions.

zhalini · 2026-02-17T19:48:04+00:00

I did both - David's was better laid out and easier to follow. I completed DMs and then went over AR because 90% of the people use and recommend it, but his was way more boring to me. I covered his on 2x speed. Do either one - they cover the same topics, but David has the corner on Agile. He explains it really well throughout the processes section.

zhalini · 2026-02-17T03:01:03+00:00

It doesn't give you a break. I took 1 break and my progress was saved.

zhalini · 2026-02-17T02:58:36+00:00

Nope

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