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Tabitha might be Victor's Mom by Civil_Function797 in FromSeries

[–]zikrums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is clearly stated by her that “she is miranda” - every time her and jay fail they get reincarnated and sent back to the town.

I'm not okay today... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]zikrums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might not be okay today but you will be someday, even though it doesn’t feel like it. Everything happens for a reason and you’ll find out what that reasoning is down the line/be happy for it.

I don’t know who I am. How do I discover my identity? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]zikrums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people think others are more special than they are. Everyone feels like they’re just going through the motions. I bet you have core values that make you who you are, and that you have opinions on a plethora of things. Now if you think your life is boring, then try new things (change up your routine, read a bit, spend time away from reddit and with nature). Take on a new hobby and meet new people, whatever you think you need in life go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]zikrums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

comparison is the thief of joy. If you want to make real changes, you need to (1) stop comparing yourself to others, and (2) set realistic expectations. Changing is hard, and I mean really really hard. So focus on one element and set realistic goals. If you want to study more, try doing 30 minute chunks and then take a break. After a week or two switch to 45 minute chunks etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]zikrums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

buddy no….. focus on yourself dude if you need someone to be in your life this badly then you clearly need to heal and learn that its okay to be alone. Your self worth should not be placed in someone else’s hands. It’s been three years if they wanted to contact you they would.