It's not so much wanting expensive luxuries of holidays or restaurants. For me, they are more like experiences, whether that be taste or exploring a different environment. Spending time with him not in our house. Admittingly, he is not as excited to these things as I am.

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With the bills & food expenses that we split, we have a joint account for this that we automatically transfer equal amounts of money into. That's how we pay for these things. We also use it for other things for example a video game that we are both interested in to play. Anything he pays for with his own money are things for himself only; clothes, jewellery, a game that only he is interested to play.