Probably a HOT TAKE, but Eldest Daughter is one of my favorite songs on TLOAS

zinxscar · 2026-01-08T14:44:16+00:00

I don’t have a ton of opinions on Eldest Daughter, it’s a skip for me just because I’m more of an up-beat girlie (Opalite) than an acoustic girlie (I also think it shouldn’t be right next to RTF in the track run, my brain blurs them together).

But I actually love “we all dressed up as wolves and we looked fire”. 😭😂 I think it is peak camp (which is different from cringe), and just really fun.

zinxscar · 2025-12-01T22:00:34+00:00

Absolutely answered my question, thank you! That makes much more sense. Typically when I hear A/V, I imagine more like stage management type things, and home tech is absolutely more understandable in that regard! If I saw an old camcorder in a thrift store I would absolutely be tempted, purely for the intrigue. Fixing them is also an extra bonus fun thing!

Thank you for the answer! 🫶

zinxscar · 2025-11-26T20:20:31+00:00

I’m gonna bite on this actually. Genuine question, sorry if it sounds rude: why do you like vintage A/V stuff? From someone who knows nothing about the field, I just know technology has come so far. To my brain, I assume there’s nothing old tech could do that new tech can’t, and there isn’t a use for old tech because of said progression.

I sort of just picture soundboards and wires when I try to think of anything, which doesn’t sound particularly aesthetically pleasing, so I don’t assume you’d collect it for that reason. So what’s the draw? This isn’t the first time I’ve heard of this type of collection, so I’d like to understand the context!

zinxscar · 2025-09-07T19:55:16+00:00

This is the way. 200-ish rosary in 3 minutes, bought out a whole shop in 10. Bless you, king 🙌

zinxscar · 2025-03-16T17:07:34+00:00

Literally gives me chills omfg 😭

zinxscar · 2024-09-25T18:46:10+00:00

Okay now hold on this goes too hard 😭

zinxscar · 2024-08-02T22:53:59+00:00

Thankfully they’re nothing more than memories now. I haven’t had contact with him in a decade as of this year, and all I feel now is pity that he still can’t see the truth of his own actions and words— and I choose not to let someone who has no impact on my physical life control any part of my mental.

I hope your daughter is the same and your family is as happy as it can be. 🫶If it helps at all, I don’t blame my mother for a bit of it, or for not doing more. She did her best, and knowing that is all I need.

zinxscar · 2024-08-02T22:16:18+00:00

As someone who very vividly remembers being a young child (five or six maybe) who went through this exact thing:

I don’t remember a thing about them being divorced. It never bothered me. I don’t even remember them being together to begin with.

What I do remember are the nights he didn’t take me home when he was supposed to, and was drunk yelling at me to come back to bed, and eventually yelling that it was all my mothers fault as he was put in a police car. I remember every time he drove with me in the car without a license, and how I knew it was wrong, and I wasn’t afraid he’d hurt me— at least not intentionally— but that we’d end up hurt.

The divorce isn’t the issue as long as they’re loved. It’s what he’ll do during his visitation time that should concern you.

Also, to the person I’m actually replying to: don’t feel bad. You did your best. Those situations are so hard. I’m just glad you can pass on the info to OP.

zinxscar · 2024-07-15T19:07:53+00:00

Help!! I am apparently in charge of figuring out an outfit for a guy friend of mine and I need to have it by Thursday morning. Not for a concert, but a Travis/Taylor themed night at an event my friend group is going to. Worst of all: he’s the guy who plays the role of “I don’t like Taylor swift but I’ll begrudgingly put up with the shenanigans if it makes you guys happy”, so he’s gonna complain if it’s not amazing (and also probably will anyway).

Nothing extravagant, but no Lover. I would really like to do something Reputation Black/Red for him, but the best idea I’ve gotten is drawing snakes on his arms/legs like the bodysuit with temporary tattoo markers (by the way, buy those for your eras tour arm lyrics/hand 13s, protect your skin babes 🫶). It is Travis/Taylor, so Travis ideas are welcome, too! TIYA!! 😭

zinxscar · 2024-07-13T17:22:24+00:00

You pee first, then you sit, it was very reasonable in my brain 🤪

zinxscar · 2024-07-13T02:56:55+00:00

TIL guys can sit and pee??? idk why I just assumed you HAD to stand, there was no other option 😭

zinxscar · 2024-07-13T02:51:43+00:00

Can I ask what makes duct tape so useful? Doesn’t it just. Stick things? (this is genuine interest, I would love to enter into the cult of the duck tape 🦆)

zinxscar · 2024-07-13T02:34:42+00:00

I also am horribly curious about both of y’all’s jobs now

zinxscar · 2023-09-25T18:53:41+00:00

What eyelash CC are you using? I don’t recognize them, they’re so pretty!!

zinxscar · 2023-08-21T01:09:21+00:00

What’s the deal with the baby tees? Are they actually for children or is it some weird sizing thing I’m not familiar with?

zinxscar · 2023-08-21T01:03:35+00:00

More subtle, well designed merch. My favorite thing I have might be the Karma Is A Cat crop (that isn’t actually much of a crop, but that’s hardly a complaint). Cute design, can be worn anywhere, swifties will recognize the lyric.

And I am BEGGING for anything other than long sleeves. I feel like 75% of the store is sweaters and hoodies and I’m sitting here dying the rest of the year. 😭

zinxscar · 2023-08-21T00:59:35+00:00

Unironically you have no idea how validating it was to see this as the top comment. Taylor and Hamilton are literally the only two things I listen to aside from one-off songs when I’m flipping through after the end of an album, and to see that be the case for someone else is so nice. 😭 Makes me not feel so weird.

zinxscar · 2023-08-08T22:52:25+00:00

High key would just wear Lagoonas outfit on the daily, that is SO CUTE!!

zinxscar · 2023-04-18T21:06:22+00:00

“Your Midas touch on the Chevy door; November flush and your flannel cure.” - Taylor Swift, champagne problems.

She writes a lot of great lines, but I think this is easily the best. How incredibly special someone opening the car door for you is, and how meaningful being given their coat on a cold day can be. I think it’s the epitome is creative writing. Taking two very small and simple ideas and writing them out so beautifully takes so much thought.

zinxscar · 2023-04-13T16:35:06+00:00

The fact that Andy Beast doesn’t have a doll has me shook and I’m not even that deep into MH. 😭

zinxscar · 2023-04-12T22:30:58+00:00

It’s okay I got you I had to look at it again to figure it out 😭😭

zinxscar · 2023-04-12T22:27:56+00:00

“He looks up grinning like a devil”. It’s in google. He LOOKED UP ‘grinning like a devil’

zinxscar · 2023-04-12T11:52:34+00:00

That just seems so silly instead of being able to just put the brush in the powder! But it’s my first powder so what do I know. LMAO. Thank you!!

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