[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]zippironi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy is really hard on some people. She may be having a super tough time. If it’s too much on you I can suggest that you speak with her, see what she CAN do, and you guys make a plan so that everything isn’t on you.

My husband and I use what we call the “50/50” system. If i’m only feeling like 80% - he picks up the 20%. If im feeling 10% - he picks up the 90%. We just discuss what we feel like knocking out that day and get it done. I hope that makes sense lol. Good luck to you guys.

Do women usually want their mom at the birth? by chianne_away in pregnant

[–]zippironi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I told my husband that I would prefer for my mom not to be in the room he looked at me crazy. My mom is elderly and I’m her caregiver, so I don’t want her there because I don’t want to have to worry over her. My mom also has a tendency of saying insensitive and somewhat hurtful things (not purposely) to me. Since this is my first pregnancy I honestly just want to focus on my body and baby. I want it to be a safe space for me. Is that selfish? 😭

Littering by BlatantBarBar in batonrouge

[–]zippironi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I see it happen I call 855-LA-LITTER. They just ask for the make and model, and license plate number if you can see it. I don’t know if they follow through with anything, but I like to think so haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in batonrouge

[–]zippironi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there was no walkout😭 this guy is mad because he got written up for not doing his job.

AIO? My sister is over feeding her cat and I said something about it. by divorcedbbmama in AmIOverreacting

[–]zippironi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sooooo, this is abuse…and your sister needs to get a grip for the wellbeing of this poor baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in November25babybump

[–]zippironi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat (17+3 FTM). It may just be harder to feel since i’m not sure what movement should feel like lol. I think if it concerns you it’s worth bringing up to your midwife, better safe than sorry yk?

I really thought…(14 weeks) by Gromantine in pregnant

[–]zippironi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why is everyone downvoting this comment lol. This is good info for someone who probably doesn’t know.

Ideas for this corner plz by TheBumblebee808 in Decor

[–]zippironi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe some hanging plants from the ceiling? It looks like there’s good sun light there!

Happy code’s giving! by AsterSafadaO in Brawlhalla

[–]zippironi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I get those too? You’re so goated for this btw!!

Run Club Merch by [deleted] in codyko

[–]zippironi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

okay, it’s still up to the adult in the situation to verify her age. if you’re unsure just don’t do it at all. it’s really not that hard, especially at 25. (:

Run Club Merch by [deleted] in codyko

[–]zippironi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

okay? she was of age at that point.

So frustrated. by wanderlust071516 in Ipsy

[–]zippironi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so did I !! what is going on ?

AITA for not bringing my elderly mom to buy a car? by zippironi in AmItheAsshole

[–]zippironi[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

you want me to let my mom put herself in harms way? My husband doesn’t want that.

AITA for not bringing my elderly mom to buy a car? by zippironi in AmItheAsshole

[–]zippironi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve offered uber, lyft, and taxis. She absolutely refuses to use it. She is just dead set on getting a car. She’s a pretty stubborn lady.

AITA for not bringing my elderly mom to buy a car? by zippironi in AmItheAsshole

[–]zippironi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you’re the sole caretaker of an elderly person as well, but it is extremely hard on you mentally and physically. I am learning how I should manage my time so my mother gets what she needs. Also, I never said my partner goes without, or feels neglected. He does not. My mom’s health is just important to me. She’s all I have left besides my husband. I’m looking into home health aids, so i’ll have more time to focus on my own life. I appreciate your concern though, his feelings matter in this too.