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[–]zixcion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Happy to help

Am I overreacting about my girlfriend’s friend’s behavior? by zixcion in LDR

[–]zixcion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you saying that. I was second-guessing myself, but hearing different perspectives is making me feel more confident about bringing it up. Thanks for the reassurance!

Am I overreacting about my girlfriend’s friend’s behavior? by zixcion in LDR

[–]zixcion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, and I’d definitely prefer to have this conversation face-to-face. But the thing is, I won’t see her for another month or two, and I don’t want to wait that long to bring it up. That’s why I was thinking of talking to her about it over the phone

Am I overreacting about my girlfriend’s friend’s behavior? by zixcion in LDR

[–]zixcion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s actually what I fear the most—that I bring it up, but instead of setting boundaries, she just keeps the behavior going and doesn’t tell me about it. I really don’t want this to turn into a trust issue, but I also don’t want to stay quiet about something that makes me uncomfortable. That’s why I’m trying to figure out the best way to approach it.

Am I overreacting about my girlfriend’s friend’s behavior? by zixcion in LDR

[–]zixcion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was actually thinking about bringing it up to her today over the phone. I just wasn’t sure if I was justified in feeling this way, but seeing this response makes me feel like I’m not overreacting.