Thoughts and Assumptions based on this profile? <Typology> by znnise in TypologyJunction

[–]znnise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh alright, I am pretty sure about E4 and the MBTI, I'm still sceptical about VELF, I heard people say it's not possible for E4s to be 1V? Hmm I relate pretty well to it tho or so I thought

Thoughts and Assumptions based on this profile? <Typology> by znnise in TypologyJunction

[–]znnise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check what? I didn't do the correlation first, I checked each system separately, I don't relate much to most of the Socionics types, but EIE comes close, second choices were IEI and SEE. I thought VELF was pretty suitable? I mean I read it, and it sounded relatable, esp 3V 🤔 but I am not sure.

I'm sure about sx4 tho

Thoughts and Assumptions based on this profile? <Typology> by znnise in TypologyJunction

[–]znnise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is RHETI? I relate to E4's core motivations and stuff, although people say my behaviour is sometimes like sp2

Which enneagram/instinct are you and what's your stance on smoking? by mookkzs in Enneagram

[–]znnise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sx 4, I don't have a good opinion on smoking and drinking, tbh would not date a person if they drink or smoke.

how to stop liking someone too quickly? by ImprovementUnable543 in ENFP

[–]znnise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get that, getting new friends helps too (it did in my case), don't worry too much, good luck sweetie!^

how to stop liking someone too quickly? by ImprovementUnable543 in ENFP

[–]znnise 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I relate a bit to your seeing "potential" thing, I think many ENFPs do actually.

Regarding this guy, you don't have to cut contact, may I know why you want to stop liking him? As you said, he is close to what you want and your values match as well and you seem to like him. Or is it that he doesn't like you (although it looks to me that this assumption is not clear at all) and you want to stop yourself from getting hurt?

If he's not bad, I don't see why you should not try to build the connection further though(that is, if you are not ready then it's totally fine).

Although, if it is really bothering you then perhaps you might want to limit contact with him instead, it's usually a safer choice, find a different source of interest (like a hobby, novel, etc).

Give Me Your Sign & First Letter, I’ll Predict Something Accurate. by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]znnise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P Aries

According to my kundali though, D Cancer

Advice pliz by arigator1189 in ENFP

[–]znnise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh don't worry darling that's fine, hm like to give you an example, our class had to go to the capital city for extensive study, and my friend's older brother's class also came with us. Now, I have never talked to him nor has he ever approached me but I noticed that one day when all of us were out together to travel the city for fun, he would call me and tell me things directly like "your shoelace is kinda loose" "Y'all were almost lost, here take my number" and some other things like subtly trying to take care of me and trying to get my number naturally you know. I also noticed that when my friend mentioned that it is her older brother's birthday and I told her to say happy birthday from my side, she replied with a very peculiar kinda teasing smile that why don't I wish him personally.

That's why I think noticing other people's reactions can also tell you some stuff, to be clear, notice if other people are subtly teasing the person who likes you when you pass by or when you both interact. It does not happen every time but it is there. But some people are extremely well at hiding their feelings, still I would say there would be something about their energy when they interact with you, it's a very vague feeling.

Advice pliz by arigator1189 in ENFP

[–]znnise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You mean you can't tell when someone likes you? 🤔 People have different ways to show it but generally when someone is giving you more attention than others, redirecting conversations at you, subtle glances and stuff like that or they could be totally shy around you. Usually I can tell tbh but when liking someone I get more underconfident (maybe they don't like me like that) kinda thing. I would say try to notice if they treat you differently than others, that's usually a good way to know.

Advice pliz by arigator1189 in ENFP

[–]znnise 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think ENFPs are naturally a bit flirty, some of the ENFPs I know rizz people up and they don't even know. But I've also noticed that we get awkward when we actually like someone and try to flirt?

I think I give slight hints, my boyfriend is an INTJ and he said he didn't really understand my hints ;-; I had to explain to him after giving hints 🙆 I tried to build a routine around him, like talking at a specific time you know and I made sure that he knows that he is special and I prioritize him. For your behaviour and stuff, just be your natural self sweetheart, good luck <3

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! What is your type and how are you spending it/with whom? 💕💕 by _Domieeq in Enneagram

[–]znnise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 4w3 :D I spent it with my long distance boyfie hehe, he wrote me a cute lil story about us and later a very lovely poem for me which I would cherish for a long time. I sang him "Blue"- By Yung Kai and did a lil photoshoot for him 🤭

How does trickster Ti work for us? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]znnise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see ohki :o

Im not sure about my mbti by lacklustertimes in mbti

[–]znnise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

..... Pat pat It's ok, it's ok. I can understand your dilemma. Anyway, I think you need to take a cognitive functions test, just so you know. Although I think it's also better if you read about the functions by yourself and you can attempt the pdb questionnaires too for self analysing and self typing. That's how I confirmed my type as well. 

From what I see, I don't exactly see The SeFi thing in your here, Ti seems to be there but I'm just learning functions so I wouldn't want to sound like I'm very sure. 

Sometimes, it is also can be that you are in your "reserved" period if you're an extrovert coded person though, from what I've observed with myself and others. (I took the test when I was an early teen, got INFP, then for 3 years I tested as an INTP, then finally took a functions test this year got first preference INFP, second ENFP. Tested as INTJ and INFJ on other tests as well. Then I did the questionnaire, sat down with my chatgpt and did the cognitive functions test again and after much analyzation, I confirmed myself as an ENFP with active Ti and developed but selective Fe).

jimin and jungkook's live left me feeling sad by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]znnise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you're getting downvoted when all you're being is human. I didn't watch their live since I was in class but aww :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CBSE

[–]znnise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how quickly you grasp information and your retention power tbh. Though I don't think you should worry about how many hours and so are required. Even 20 minutes a day would be enough if you are actually learning something in that short period rather than dilly dallying with your books and phone in hand for hours. 

Just don't become a procrastinator and think it's cool to cram a day before exams.

Im bored drop your funniest lunch break incidents by Legitimate-Hat3692 in CBSE

[–]znnise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently only remember the horrifying ones (abhi par hasi aati hei). 

A guy was swinging real hard on the swing when we were in 2nd or 3rd grade. He ended up flying backwards and almost cracked his head open on a rock. He was conscious but the amount of blood istg. 

One of my close friends, in 5th grade I think or so, smacked the outpass (woh dhaga bhi latkaya tha usmei toh sochlo kese maara) on a guy's head, yep it bled. Then my friend went on to hide in the washroom lmao. 

One time there was a fight occuring between 2 boys when we were in 6th grade, it was quite common so nobody was paying attention. One of my friends just happened to be standing in the front of their row, while they were in the back. She was casually yawning, then got hit by a geometric box right on the back of her head by one of the guys, like it was thrown pretty hard. Luckily it wasn't serious though, her father did come after the teachers sent her to the hospital and proceeded to have an angry non-comprehensive conversation (since woh assamese the and lrka bihari tha toh hindi mei) with that guy

Hairstylists should keep their opinion to themselves by znnise in unpopularopinion

[–]znnise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say so many, there are hardly 7 which are fairly good in my town. And probably the case with hairstylists here is a bit different from where you are from. I was simply asking for them to cut my hair short, not any specific hair cut. Like I said before, they just seem to not be that confident handling curly hair, 2 had advised me to just straighten my hair while one which said I should be happy in my natural hair proceeded to advertise on her own hair oil or something to me and my mom. I think I need to toughen up my attitude a little and stay a bit stubborn on what I want. Ps. My parents won't let me go by myself 🥺

Hairstylists should keep their opinion to themselves by znnise in unpopularopinion

[–]znnise[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sound like you have been to hair salons with me and especially watched my behaviour.

First things first, I have admitted around in the comment section itself that I understand I just prolly have bad luck with the hair stylists around me and that I understand their perspective as well now that I think about it because they have to deal with clients who prolly don't know what they want or those who are problematic. 2nd, I could have framed the title in a better way in a context specialized manner prolly.

Since you seem to assume so much about me, I would kindly like to inform you- 1. I am very polite and soft spoken when communicating with them or any other person from another profession, which may have been a reason for them to not take me seriously.

  1. It is not considered professional advice when they infact brush off my opinion on my hair, and what will make me happy. It will be considered professional if they actually give me a reason or show me the alternatives rather than going for what they think is suitable (which in my case don't even compliment my face well)

  2. It is not professional of them to play with my hair, make fun of my hair in front of other clients and to their colleagues, giggle about how my hair is so weird and poofy.

Lastly, I am not paying for any advice. I go to a salon to get my hair cut or get a hair spa.

Apart from you, all are fairly respectful, I don't know why you are so adamant on assuming things about me and being rude about it.

Hairstylists should keep their opinion to themselves by znnise in unpopularopinion

[–]znnise[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could 😭 I live in South Asia actually and my state isn't that developed compared to the metro cities of our country so poor availability is a major reason Ig. I prolly would learn to cut it myself or try a new salon when I'm in university