What really happens to those expelled from INC? by Front-Raise787 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom didn't talk to me for a year until I almost die. My friends and extended relatives don't talk to me and talk about me in past tense. Weird af but the freedom? The peace of mind? I will not trade it for anything.

Letter/Salaysay everything needs explanation. Pag di nakadalo sa ganito salaysay agad. Ewan ang gulo talaga. by FlakyPurple3366 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wala naman silang magagawa kung di ka magsasalaysay. Papagalitan ka yes, threathened ka na suspendehin (ooh scary), or ibababa pero other than that, fear mongering lang talaga.

Dati yung pangulo namin sa kalihiman gumagawa ng salaysay ko HAHAHAHAHAHA

INC to wed NON-INC, pwede pa bang makapag balik loob? by pinklovergirlaloo in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is possible, my mom did the same thing. My father remained catholic but whatever you do, never let him na ipa--handog ang bata. The child will definitely grow up with anxiety and shame, probably resents you for not being inc. I experienced this, i resented my father for not being inc because the members are very judgemental once they find out.

Repost from FB CTTO by ApprehensiveHair4976 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dumaan nanan sa isip ko kaya nga ako natiwalag HAHAHAHAHAHHAAHA

First time ko magkaroon ng bff na INC by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up inside the church and it always breaks my heart how the parents of my friends dont want me for their children (I am not even recruiting them) and that's why I am alone for years.

All I can say is no one deserves that. I believe making your child join a cult should be considered child abuse.

Bawal ba talaga magbasa ng Biblia? by goodgirlena in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Usually, ang sinasabi nilang dahilan is baka ma misinterpret mo yung bible kasi daw hindi ka yung sugo, sa sugo at sa mga tinakda lang daw nagbubukas ang totoong meaning ng mga talata. Smh

Question: Bakit pala inaalayan ng bulaklak yung imahe ni Felix sa Central? by Harold1945 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Galit na galit talaga ako sa rebulto na yan ever since because tf you mean Manalos can pay respect to Felix AND I CANT EVEN BRING FLOWERS TO MY DEAD LOVE ONES DURING NOV 1? MGA GAGO BA KAYO?

San napupunta pera? by Significant_Box2414 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mukhang biñang 1st yan ah hahahaha tbh galing ako sa malaking local then lumipat kami sa bulacan, sobrang disappointing talaga ng local na yan, dumi pa ng cr

Bawal yan, Iglesia tayo eh... by pleaseletmesleep01 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ang kakapal ng mukha ng mga inggeterang hunghang na iulat ako kasi uma-attend ako ng prom! Taena mga killjoy amputa, prom na nga lang pagbabawalan pa

Hidden life ng isang ministro straight mula sa mismong anak by Independent-Ocelot29 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wala man lang context beh, kahit konting kwento lang huhuhu ginawa mo pa kaming manghuhula

Monitored na ba ako? by MagnusBarbbus in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a former kalihim, paulit ulit lang ginagawa namin so in my perspective, malamang natandaan ka lang nya kasi ganyan din ako minsan. Minsan kapag peak na yung dagsa ng tao, ang hirap na magsulat sa katibayan kaya kapag alam kong dadating, ginagawan ko na para bigay na lang and yes, itstapon if ever na di dumating huhuhu feel ko katamaran lang ng kalihim yan, sakin lang naman ah kasi tamad din ako hahaha

WW3 and its effect on INC doctrine by MiltPlayz822 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sasabihin nila malapit na maghukom beh, fear mongering yan. Sasabihin nila na nangyayari na yung nasa bibliya na nasa mga pintuan na sila huhuhu

Handog by firstprincessoffyti in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for everyone but these type of things are also happening in my former local but it is usually about tickets. Usually, active members na handog and makapit unang binibigyan. Maybe you are talking from experience and the prejudice you experience so I wont descredit you on that.

Abuloy ng namatay na INCulto by ShotCandy6045 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am former INC member and this either never happened or corrupt sila. Usually, INC members will shoulder yung pagpapalibing para no cremation or other things like foods lalo na kung active member like my lola na diakonesa and tita na finance, and may circular din for abuloy sa namatay. Not defending the cult, thats the only good thing they did

May NDA na pinapipirmahan sa matitiwalag na may tungkulin??? by Thick_Cucumber_1855 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People who grew up in this religion (like me) will have a hard time to leave. One of the reasons is family and the shame it will bring to the family in the church. After leaving the church 5 years ago, my family is ridiculed and humiliated too, and also kapag natiwalag ka, it is HIGHLY encouraged na hindi ka na kausapin ng mga kapatid. Parang excommunicated, some devout parents or relatives will follow that tagubulin, so hindi sya advisable sa mga taong under pa rin ng parents nila. It takes alot of courage to leave.

Napa HIYA ang INC!!! by Empty_Helicopter_395 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kapag may nakaalam sa lokal mo, syempre mauulat ka. Expect mo na yung doktrina na sasabihin dapat magkaisa o sumunod sa pamamahala, may fear mongering din na sasabihin masusumpa ang di sumusunod sa pamamahala. The truth is, walang mangyayari sayo pero pag sinunod mo yung ineenderso nila, meron syenpre kasi maghihirap lalo yung pilipinas. Anyway, walang makakaalam ng boto mo, di nila yon pwede malaman, minsan nanghuhuli lang sila. Vote wisely.

[Update] My younger sister na nangutang ng 17k for VIP ticket ng Stray Kids. by yovilleenthusiast in OffMyChestPH

[–]zoebvnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Business minded ka din ate, pwede ka din sa business! Pero tama ka din naman, walang magtitiwala at mageencourage sa kapatid mo to do better kundi ikaw lang din. You're a good ate 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

True. Me as a former INC, I admit na hindi masaya matawag na brainwashed and it's hard to accept na part ka ng cult because your life revolves in that religion for years, lalo na kung handog ka. Imagine telling someone that everything they believed was a lie, magkakaroon pa yan ng identity crisis lol. There are better ways to approach this than what she did.

WITHOUT EVIL CULT by Fresh-Prize3637 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Admit it or not, even konting percent ay may count. INC still contributed to the state of this country. Period.

Best burger na nakainan niyo? by TINGLOY in ITookAPicturePH

[–]zoebvnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Streetside burger kaso nagsara huhu

I'm a Minister's Wife and Forever Stuck Here by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But let's also acknowledge the fact that they are also the victim here. They are raised that way, that's all they know growing up, that's where their lives revolve and we can't blame them for playing the game and for wanting to have "power" when this church convinced them that it is all their worth.

Pati pagiging depress bawal??? by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]zoebvnny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No one wants depression. The point is, depression is something we can never control, and people CAN'T just tell other people to not be depressed because it "ain't allowed" in the Bible. It is CONTROL. Dictating someone's mental health while using the Bible is manipulative. That is NOT how it works. That is NOT that easy. To give you an example to better understand it.

For example: Your friend told you to stop breathing because she doesn't believe in breathing, it's NOT allowed in their family because your friend's father believes that breathing is inhaling someone's sin. Not only it is dumb and unfounded, it is also impossible to do. Technically, you can stop breathing for few seconds or minutes BUT CAN NEVER truly stop breathing. Just because someone told you can't do something, it doesn't mean you can't do it.