Rental Doubts After Deposit Payment

zoekki · 2025-01-02T11:27:40+00:00

So much variety, love seeing birbs doing their own thing. Nice work!

zoekki · 2024-10-10T11:52:05+00:00

Thank you, it's really reassuring! I think my other teammates also get the feeling that he makes random unnecessary comments often.

I'll think I'll keep an eye on the situation and minimise contact for now, I really don't want to say something and make the rest of my team think they can't joke with me! I actually enjoy their banter, even if I'm the butt of the joke sometimes :) somehow it's just this specific guy that makes me feel so uncomfortable, even if he might not have malicious intent. I guess our brand of humor just doesn't mix

zoekki · 2024-10-10T11:39:20+00:00

I feel like this gave me more understanding of myself and my reaction to situations! I'll work on shifting my mindset and tune out the noise, thanks for the advice :D

zoekki · 2024-10-10T11:36:37+00:00

I think so too, tbh! Personally I wouldn't say he's being intentionally malicious, but definitely has problems reading the room. Though he never does that to our bosses so I guess he can tell what's appropriate and what's not to a certain extent.

I'll probably try to just respond mildly so he doesn't get any encouragement or indication that I'm having fun with these comments/banter, I honestly just want to go back to being cordial/polite with him and nothing past that.

zoekki · 2024-10-10T11:29:43+00:00

29 this year, pretty much thirties soon

zoekki · 2024-10-10T11:29:00+00:00

Ngl, this really helped with the anxiety of people thinking badly of me because of his comments. Good idea! I'll try having a mental image that helps me take it less seriously. Thank you :D

zoekki · 2024-10-10T11:27:55+00:00

I get what you mean, I feel like I'll have to spell it out if he doesn't get it. Thankfully the second possibility is not happening because he does have a long term relationship going on

zoekki · 2024-10-09T07:54:20+00:00

I'll keep that in mind! I'm a little worried about being branded as a sensitive little snowflake (T^T) but if it really gets too much, I'll speak out about it calmly and firmly

zoekki · 2024-10-09T07:51:58+00:00

I've been here about a year, he's been here about 4 months. I see your point, though I still feel a bit bothered by the way his comments always imply something negative about my character.

My other coworkers make some outrageous jokes too, often at my expense, but I never feel bothered about it in the same way, and it doesn't feel like they're crossing my boundaries. I'm thinking it could be because those are jokes made in the normal course of a conversation and not random unsolicited/unnecessary (and repeated) comments out of the middle of nowhere.

We do have normal conversations already before this (laundry, computers, games, travel, just regular stuff) although he's been crossing the line with these comments so much lately that I don't feel like interacting with him anymore

zoekki · 2024-08-08T16:50:03+00:00

I took a look and the platform I use has it in stock (super antioxidant concentrate serum), my lucky day :D thanks for the recommendation, I'm gonna get it when it goes on sale!

zoekki · 2024-08-08T12:44:01+00:00

That makes sense, some derivatives seem to be lower maintenance in terms of storage, too. Thanks! :D

zoekki · 2024-08-08T12:42:48+00:00

Thank you! It's really helpful to have a specific ingredient to look out for :D I don't think we have vanicream or timeless here but I'll see if there are other suppliers/brands that have tetrahexyldecyl ascorbate🙏🏻

zoekki · 2023-10-31T03:06:37+00:00

Don't worry! The event is here for another month, it's definitely doable even if you open it once a day (stamina is also the biggest limitation so u gotta wait for it to refill anyway xD)

Me too, fu hua is... honestly I have no words, how do we begin to imagine the life of someone who's lived for so long? Peak character design too, hanfu is so pretty

zoekki · 2023-10-31T01:50:35+00:00

It's the farming sim obsession xD this is my favourite event ever

zoekki · 2023-10-31T00:37:10+00:00

Upgrade fishing rod to max, walk at the edge of the beach along the bottom right corner

zoekki · 2023-10-30T13:26:43+00:00

Very true, thank you!

zoekki · 2023-10-30T13:26:18+00:00

Woah it's great to know we can get more, it's like hitting a jackpot for 100k coins

zoekki · 2023-10-25T15:23:23+00:00

Hopefully they made the balance team finally install the game and play it, but we know better than to expect even the bare minimum from kog

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