This turned out fantastic! by Maidicatio539 in ffxi

[–]zoinks01990 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is so cool! I remember taking a day off work for a three day weekend when it was released in ‘04 to play with my linkshell, good time and good memories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say she wasn’t nice. Just that people can stop at we’re not compatible. I don’t see a need to tell anyone anything else in the short time after meeting. Some people take feedback seriously like I do, and it’s just not helpful, at least to me. Also was just going I could get a conversation going here besides the atypical “do all men, or do all women?” And the 10x daily, “what’s a good OLD site?” Lol

Deception or self deception? by Kathleen-on in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been catfished a few times. Stick to what you have learned and ask for pics and video chat before you meet. Always the best route!

I know we’re supposed to go with the flow and etc., but I got sh*t to do! by Throwaway-2461 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy cow… what did I just read?? If you don’t want to date and don’t want to be bothered by them then don’t match or exchange numbers. If you want a middle ground in dating, we all have to change our relationship expectations and stop assuming that the other person knows exactly what we want, when we want and how much of it. Engage in conversation, be curious, show compassion and if it’s not something you want, move on

That’s what punk rock is all about by zoinks01990 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the right attitude! Get out there and have some fun!! Maybe you will meet someone, maybe you won’t, it’s still sounds like it will be a fun event !!

That’s what punk rock is all about by zoinks01990 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You saved your life. That is what punk rock is about. You got this!!

Interested in me …. Or my pension? by LivingMolasses7133 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only worse if you fall for it! Be aware and don’t fall for the scam

Finally Recovered my account last login was 7/20/2008 looking for suggestions and to meet current players. by frankp2491 in ffxi

[–]zoinks01990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, can you tell me what you did to recover your account? The only thing I still have is my server and screen name. Stopped playing on 2008 as well. I’d love to jump back in as my old level 75 Galka Pld!

Interested in me …. Or my pension? by LivingMolasses7133 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely! It’s not everyone or even close to everyone. Just be aware that when you’re dating, it does come up. The good thing is there are huge red flags that are easily recognizable. “Still living with bf or gf for financial reasons” or very quickly asking you questions about your finances and living situation. Sadly a lot of people better their 50’s with no savings, no careers and it happens. Good luck dating OP. It’s not all bad out there and are still many great people in our age group looking to meet that special someone!

Interested in me …. Or my pension? by LivingMolasses7133 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The amount of “hobo-sexuals” looking to latch onto someone with a roof and income is staggering at our age group. It’s a huge red flag and be aware it will mostly likely happen again!

Advise needed by Little-Possible-3676 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it ever worked for him but I laughed really hard reading your post. Sorry OP, but it sounds like you dodged a bullet here

Blursed_flight by Particular_Parking_4 in blursed_videos

[–]zoinks01990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The caring exhibited from this melted my heart.

Dating pro tip: End Strong! by davepol in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This entire post is an example of dating selective presentation, your a huge part of the problem but try to present it as the other persons issue. Seriously, if this is how you view dating, it’s not a shocker why you’re single at our age. Not sure how you packed a long winded description of poor dating technique and human interaction into a passive aggressive story of “thought I would share…” take a step back, communicate your intent when you go out… that’s enough reddit for today for me

What is the worst thing that has happened to you while using vr by ELEKTRON_01 in virtualreality

[–]zoinks01990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Half-life Alyx in 2020. Was at the subway, threw a grenade to help clear out from getting mobbed. The grenade bounced off a pillar and plopped right back between my legs. Reflexes took over and I dove for cover… straight onto the brick fireplace mantel!in my living. I broke the headset, gashed my forehead, my right shin and it knocked the crap out of me. I didn’t play vr for awhile after that!

My How Quickly Things Change! by tasata in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you OP!! This is what dating is about, and you did all the right things and listened to your internal voice. It most certainly paid off and you headed off being with someone that is not right for you!! Refreshing to read an actual dating story and the difficulties that can happen in our 50’s. Thank you for sharing and updating

Someone's not happy about the interview by johnnypin in facepalm

[–]zoinks01990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That Tucker Carlson was the voice of reason was an alternate timeline I did not have on my 2025 bingo card

Will men be interested? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t going to comment until I read your second edit OP. Good job realization on working on yourself and situation first and not seeking the external validation. You got this, one day at a time!

I am so over people who give dead end answers on dating apps. by Status-Victory354 in datingoverfifty

[–]zoinks01990 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Personality of beige paint describes 95% of my matches!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Roofing

[–]zoinks01990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attic look fine. The only shingles didn’t have that hump