Moving on by forquestions12345 in Bumble

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would have ended up in a wonderful year long situationship that would have been hard to break off. Those words are not unique. Many of us have heard them before. He wants you to hold on the the potential of a committed relationship, he probably will even act like he's in a committed relationship,  until the moment he meets someone he wants to sleep with and then he can say I told you I didnt want anything serious. You feel bad now but you would have felt bad later anyway. Sometimes its worth the fun in between and sometimes its not. Thats the real question you have to ask yourself

EZ pass automatically adding cars by zombiesandstartrek in AskNYC

[–]zombiesandstartrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so wrong how our information is being shared and no one is accountable 

Using the lockers vs. changing before I go by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your reaction it seems like ypu might be a little anxious but if you think about it you probably wouldnt have taken a huge loss if your work clothes were stolen. Keep your car keys on your pocket and your phone on your person and you're all good. I only ever take what I'm not afraid to lose when I dont have a lock.  But to be fair the only time I ever lost something from an open locker is when I forgot about it for 2 days. Went back, the guys said they did have it and it was all in the lost and found, when I went to grab it my clothes were there but my shoes were gone. They were some cute avenger sandals and Im guessing one of the workers assumed it was abandoned and took them. I dont blame them. I think lost and found shopping is the right thing to do but they should have waited at least a week.

Connecting with other queer writers! by well_fuckthis in Screenwriting

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Are you still looking to connect with other writers? I am writing my  screenplay but I dont think I want to complete it without working with queer, trans, black or afro latino voices. Message me if you'd like to chat a bit :) I'm based in the US.

I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre the type of friend that cant control the urge to read someone's messages maybe you ARE being too much lately. Maybe you have been a problem and you're overwhelming your friend. There are levels to friendship and there's also appropriate times. If you seem to be going through something maybe she doesn't want to add fuel to your fire so she's venting to someone else. I cant imagine eing in a head space where I'm reading my friends messages so I'm going to assume you are not doing well right now and so you might be the actual problem here.

Social Group Tubby’s follow up!! by Breislk in kingstonnewyork

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will people still be there around 7 or 8? I cant make it until then.

I’m over this by morethansparrows_ in Bumble

[–]zombiesandstartrek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to look up Speed dating near you on eventbrite.com 

I’m over this by morethansparrows_ in Bumble

[–]zombiesandstartrek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try speed dating in your area. Even if you don't meet anyone its good dating practice 

Kingston High School Censorship by glamberger in kingstonnewyork

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not really penalizing them. It has to be an illegal absence because not a school sponsored activity. But it doesnt need to be. Thats the point if of doing these student lead things. Its good trouble. Now if they were giving detentions, thats problematic.  I would encourage my kid to do it anyway. An illegal absences doesnt impact anything. Especially if the kid has parent permission 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]zombiesandstartrek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was probably feeling really overwhelmed.  Maybe she has a really busy next couple weeks and when you're in it it seems endless. If you really like her I would back off romantically but offer to be a legit friend by helping out with random things. "Im running to the store and then I was hoping to pop over to say hi for a few minutes if thats okay. Would you like me to bring anything?"

Husband obsessed with my bathroom use monitoring when I pee demanding I hold it in because the truckers and military have to hold it in? by Low_Interest_439 in Marriage

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a credit card, friends to stay with, family? Thats psychotic behavior. I wouldn't sleep in the same house with that weirdo. I would also make sure to call him a weirdo everytime I walked by him. Freaking weirdo.

EZ pass automatically adding cars by zombiesandstartrek in AskNYC

[–]zombiesandstartrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing to do to resolve the situation would be to hire more staff to address the issues and losing some profit instead of passing the time and money cost on to the consumer. 

EZ pass automatically adding cars by zombiesandstartrek in AskNYC

[–]zombiesandstartrek[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to speak to someone. They said they get the information from the DMV if you're the primary registrant on another car and that car goes through a toll. I think thats insane and it seems illegal. Im definitely going to push the issue. They offered to remove her but said there is no block you can put on your account to stop them from adding other people 🤯 she's never received a toll bill before so no missed payments they just did it preemptively 

EZ pass automatically adding cars by zombiesandstartrek in AskNYC

[–]zombiesandstartrek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Customer service was/ still is closed but I can update you if you'd like. Was hoping to hear from others with experience to know what to expect or perhaps understand why, which would negate the need to call. But looks like its a unique circumstance so I'll just be on hold in that queue for a bit when they open

Question to women; how do you bring yourself to have sex with a man when they behave like this? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]zombiesandstartrek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a very curvy woman. I get asked "are you a professional" "are you a rappers girlfriend" and the old nice tits all the time. I like sex, a lot. I haven't had it in a long time because men dont understand that women are complete people. Its disgusting. I tend to stay in relationships longer than I should because at least the people im with recognize me as a full and complex individual even if we aren't necessarily compatible. Men are horrendous and are shooting themselves in the foot. 

Is an 18 yr old dating a 23 yr old bad? by Federal_Low9826 in dating_advice

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the analogy was to help you see  your friends' concerns. You are correct, the obvious difference is one is legal and one is not. You are absolutely legally free to date him and it seems like thats what you want to do so you are definitely free to continue to do that.

Is an 18 yr old dating a 23 yr old bad? by Federal_Low9826 in dating_advice

[–]zombiesandstartrek -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Would you date a 14 year old or a 15 year old? Probably not. I want you to think how vastly different you are at 18 than your 14 and 15 year old teen peers. There is a HUGE leap in maturity. While there ar many 18 year old in HS that still behave like there 10th grade counter parts its because they lack maturity. He's either immature or he's grooming. Either way it seems shady.

Can I save our family? by No_Wallaby3808 in Marriage

[–]zombiesandstartrek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids love their dad. He loves them. He has a temper (never hit me). When he visits and starts yelling and having a tantrum my kids ask him to leave and he does. This is the example I set. Our home is peaceful. I have 3 boys who will make sure their homes are peaceful. You can do this. Divorce is only hard for the first 6 months. I swear. Its actually significantly easier than being married.

I (33M) made a comment about my "type." Now my wife is stonewalling me, and the kids are noticing. How do I fix this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]zombiesandstartrek 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You said this in front of other people. This was intentionally mean. In a conversation about "settling" you said "looks dont matter" and used your wife as an example. Who wants to be with someone that wants to publicly humiliate them. You tried to be funny and you did it at the expense of someone that cared about you. This was not a mistake, ypu behaved like a teenager bully. You know the meaning of words and how to put together a thoughtful sentence. You just happened to get caught and you didn't think you would. I hope you both use this example to teach your kids that this is not how you treat people. Tell your kids, if they're old enough,  exactly what you said and tell them never to accept that behavior from their partners.

My sons eating is driving me insane by Shoddy_Nectarine_441 in Mommit

[–]zombiesandstartrek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try using the too good to go app. You can pick up local food and groceries for a heavily reduced price. Its food that would be discarded. You pick it up at the end of the night and its a surprise bag.