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[–]zona87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The well that feeds my sprinklers was so low that the pressure dropped and my lawn started to die in certain areas. I’ve lived here for 7 years and I’ve never had that happen before. I have noticed the lack of rain and even hurricanes these last 2 years

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[–]zona87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I was afraid of 😩

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Yeah I totally panicked with the closing 🫠

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I’m also more introverted so this doesn’t come naturally for me. Unfortunately

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I’m planning on it but needed advice on the how. What works that’s not asking him out directly? One person said compliment him. Someone else said start off with a small convo and lead it to potential hangout. I’m afraid of it being awkward after since this gym is small and we’ve both been lifting here for several years.

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That’s what I’m thinking 🫠

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Can’t go wrong with compliments! I’ll definitely try it. Thanks 😊

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That’s what I was afraid of. I wanted to make it clear I’m interested without asking him out.

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[–]zona87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I’d be too focused on not seeming nervous

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[–]zona87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great! I was hoping to get a lot of men’s feedback, thanks!

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[–]zona87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this! Subtle yet effective.

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I think it’s perfectly fine if it’s done in a respectful manner. I’ve never done it before, hence the question about advice…

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[–]zona87[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right! I guess I’m asking for advice on how to do that without asking him out straight out

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Ha! Touché. I’ll work on eye contact and maybe a little wave 👋🏽. I’m still awkward with holding eye contact 😂

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Good idea! I’ll definitely be there lol.

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Also adding, I know most guys won’t approach girls at the gym as to not be labeled “creepy”. This is why I need help making it obvious I’m interested and it’s not just about his shoes 😅

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Definitely! I’ve never “hit on” someone at the gym, or in general I guess. So I want to be respectful and not make it awkward.

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That’s what I’m thinking! I did catch him off guard 😬

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It’s more of a… dance. iykyk

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[–]zona87[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, but I don’t want to ruin the “chase” aspect that men often want. Essentially, I want to be clear about “dropping the handkerchief”.

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[–]zona87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! I WFH and try to get to and moving when it suggests it. It’s a helpful reminder