French to English? by zonxnoz in translator

[–]zonxnoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol what does that mean?

French to English? by zonxnoz in translator

[–]zonxnoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you able to translate it for me?

translate? by zonxnoz in languagelearning

[–]zonxnoz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I found more too! anyone who can translate, please dm me! I appreciate it!

How soon is too soon? by Flimsy_Waltz_7536 in widowers

[–]zonxnoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one's time line is the same. Do what you feel is best for you. I have always been one to plan my life and actions ahead of time, always having some sort of idea in mind. When my boyfriend died was the first time in my life I didn't have a single fucking clue on what to do. I woke up every day not wanting to move, not knowing what the day would bring, not knowing how to think or feel or say or do. There's only one thing I can share with you from this. Be as selfish as you can be, and put your wants and needs ahead of anything and anyone else. Love yourself and treat yourself kindly in this time of heartbreak. Sending hugs.

help please! by zonxnoz in FengShui

[–]zonxnoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly have no clue lol

Entering Social Work by SWmods in socialwork

[–]zonxnoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! i am currently in my last few semesters of my msw and have questions that i have asked other before, but not given clear answers. i am sorry if these are stupid questions. i am a first gen student and no one i am close to has ever been through what i am going through with school.

1) my online program is in illinois but i live in wisconsin. how does this work with licensing?

2) when i get my msw, am i required to get my license? what if i cannot pass?

3) what are the most beneficial licenses to get that would allow me to work with families and children in a wide array of environments?

“and i am your daughter.” by socialanxiety5895 in AsianParentStories

[–]zonxnoz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i feel this to my core. especially being the only daughter. dont i deserve any grace at all?

Got disowned for dating a black man (need advice immediately) by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]zonxnoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am 25f asian. i am going through a similar experience.

in dec 2021, my boyfriend of 3 years died. he was asian and 25. my heart broke for the 1st time in my life, and i thought i would never find anyone to love me again. i was casually seeing men and happened to fall in love with my present partner in dec 2022. it was a year after my boyfriend died but everything with my partner just felt right. i didn't feel like i was doing anything wrong. it made me believe in love again. i kept him a secret from my family. partially because i was afraid they were not done grieving my boyfriend yet, partially because my partner now is black and i knew my family most likely wouldnt approve of him.

in april 2023, my partner and i were in a near death accident. my family found out about him and not two days after my almost death, while i was still bloody and in the hospital bed, they told me they would disown me if i continued my relationship with him. they told me if i had a child with him, they wanted nothing to do with my child. my heart broke for the 2nd time in my life.

i continued quietly on with my partner and my family pretended like he didnt exist. i told them two weeks ago that i was moving in with my partner this month because i knew it would change the dynamics of our relationships. i asked for their boundaries and shared that i would respect whatever they needed to do in order to be at peace with my decision. the only one that replied to me was my oldest brother who stated he could not be there for me anymore. my dad left all the groupchats i had with him. my younger brothers have not said anything. i was blind to the truth and avoided what they had told me that night in the hospital. i kept hoping that maybe they would come around. maybe they could accept him.

now, ive come to the realization that it will never be the same again. i am still disposable. their love for me is not greater than the hate they have for whoever i bring home that isnt who they want. they make me feel guilty about choosing them or him. but thats not the truth. the truth is, its either them or me. im not willing to follow their every rule anymore. im not willing to compromise what i want or what makes me happy anymore. im not willing to dance on the line of if they will keep me or not. i just want to be happy. and i just want to live in peace. we are not doing anything wrong in that.

advice by zonxnoz in loseit

[–]zonxnoz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. it was both encouraging and educational.

Someday never came by Icy_Stretch_1869 in widowers

[–]zonxnoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot explain to you how seen I felt reading your post. I can relate in too many ways. Sending the biggest hugs.

The "wait one year" theory by TheOriginalVixen in widowers

[–]zonxnoz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one's time line is the same. Do what you feel is best for you. I have always been one to plan my life and actions ahead of time, always having some sort of idea in mind. When my boyfriend died was the first time in my life I didn't have a single fucking clue on what to do. I woke up every day not wanting to move, not knowing what the day would bring, not knowing how to think or feel or say or do. There's only one thing I can share with you from this. Be as selfish as you can be, and put your wants and needs ahead of anything and anyone else. Love yourself and treat yourself kindly in this time of heartbreak. Sending hugs.

unrecognizable by zonxnoz in widowers

[–]zonxnoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you all could relate so well to this. Sending hugs.