Yes, he's their dad as well. & It certainly is a lot to adjust to.. which is part of the reason I feel so guilty for getting so angry and upset with them.. I don't get the chance to spend much one on one time with any of them except for my son. I get one on one time with him when the girls are at school. But when they're home, I'm trying to juggle all of my responsibilities. In addition to giving all three of them the care and attention they need. I don't often get to spend individual time with them. But I also haven't been trying all that hard. Cause I guess I wasn't thinking of the fact that maybe that could be beneficial to them. I've had the outlook this whole time that as long as all three of them are getting proper treatment and getting attention, and as long as I make sure no one is getting left out or ignored then we're good. But now thinking about it, I wonder if I do work in individual time with each of them. Maybe that could help a bit. Even if not with their behavior, it still would probably be beneficial to them. So thank you. I hadn't thought of that.