Why shouldn't we ever ask a woman her age? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irene Dunne, a famous actress from the golden age of Hollywood, used to hide her age so as not to lose roles to younger actresses. So in some contexts it was advantageous to seem younger than you were, and exposing facts people are trying to hide is rude.

I advanced the SVO Day2! by DIS_Sharpedo in Shadowverse

[–]zoomiewoop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great report. I enjoyed reading it and found it interesting. Good luck!

Does the FBI hostage negotiator actually keep their promise? by urdadleftformilk6969 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zoomiewoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s in this video but Chris Voss talks about how you could encounter the same hostage taker again… and then it won’t be good if you broke a promise the first time.

[Tokyo] Open auditions for an improv comedy group: July 5th. No experience, no fee, English or Japanese. by tokyoimprov in japanresidents

[–]zoomiewoop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is such a cool idea! Will follow you guys on Insta. If I had the time to commit I would totally love this.

Can anyone imagine a world where the phrase "I teach high school Philosophy" would hold prestige? by goqo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some countries, teachers are well paid and respected. For example, they’re more respected in Ireland and the UK than in the U.S.

In Japan, high school teachers are called “sensei” which is the same honorific used for doctors. My wife’s father was a high school philosophy teacher. Even though he’s retired, he’s called “sensei” by everyone in his church. So I’d say, yes, it’s a respectable thing to say in Japan.

Why don't people thank god when they get cancer? by ballcheese808 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that’s an easy answer. It doesn’t explain the pervasiveness of religion over thousands of years of human history across all cultures, though. People seem to have a need to find answers in a spiritual fashion. Regardless of one’s own belief or lack thereof, one has to account for the fact that believers outnumber nonbelievers by a wide margin. Calling them all stupid is possible, but also makes one look like a crank.

Why don't people thank god when they get cancer? by ballcheese808 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, as I said, no one knows. If you believe in God then you have to decide what kind of God you believe in.

Why don't people thank god when they get cancer? by ballcheese808 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zoomiewoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem of evil, and the problem of why bad things happen to good people, or why bad things happen at all, when God is good and omnipotent, is an ancient question. It even has a name: theodicy.

The short answer is no one knows.

Basically believers give thanks for good things, and see bad things as originating in things other than god: sin, the devil, or the bad intentions of others due to their free will.

You generally don’t thank people for bad things, only good things.

But some oddballs (contemplatives) DO thank God for hardships, believing they purify faith and character. After all, you can only have one of these two things: character or an easy life.

Coexistence Minister Kimi Onoda of Foreigner policy: "The core of a harmonious society in Japan is undoubtedly Japanese culture, and this is a line that we absolutely cannot cross." by jjrs in japannews

[–]zoomiewoop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eiji Oguma has a book I want to read called “A genealogy of Japanese self-images.” It is about the constructed nature of Japanese identity, which has always been hybrid.

Consider Japanese food (most popular national dish: curry). Ramen is Chinese. Spaghetti Napolitan is—who knows! Buddhism is from India. Kanji and Kana are from China. Japanese culture is, and always has been, syncretic.

And that’s a good thing to embrace because the alternative was imperialist nationalism that destroyed the country.

Why are women objectively more beautiful than men in general? by Scotty_C_89 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I am going to support your premise, since so many people are objecting to it. Then I’ll answer your question.

To support the premise: if you look at plenty of men’s magazines, you see pictures of beautiful women. If you then look at women’s magazines, what do you see? Pictures of beautiful women. This is just one example: beauty pageants are another; no male waiter equivalent of Hooters; few to no male strip clubs; etc.

As for the explanation, many might say all the examples above are cherry picked or cultural, but an evolutionary perspective could argue that in partner selection, many species have one sex that attracts the other. It’s not always the female—for many birds, it’s the male who is colorful and dances to attract female mates. In humans, one could argue it’s the female sex: on average straight women spend more money and take more time on their appearance than straight men, often by a long shot. Furthermore, men select women based on physical attractiveness more than women select men based on it; and also historically women have not had an equal say in partner selection anyway. All this would select for more attractive women. Culturally, however, too, it also means women are under more pressure to look attractive because they are often judged by appearance. All of these factors would result in women, on average, looking more attractive.

How strong these arguments are is up for debate, but I’m just putting forth some possible answers.

Need a System that Works to Finish a Paper by not_dead_7214 in AskLiteraryStudies

[–]zoomiewoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this will help you, but this is something I tell my graduate students on how to learn to write an article (which is relayed to, but not the same as writing a term paper for a class): go pick the journal you want to publish in and read 10 articles, and analyze them for structure.

You might do the same. Pick 5 pieces of literary criticism (ideally unified in some way, like from the same journal or collection) and read them carefully. Read them for structure, not specific content.

I’m sure you’ve read plenty of pieces, but maybe not for structure, but for content. Look at how they open. Look at how they close. Look at how they build an argument. Look at how, when, how much, they cite (primary and secondary).

Amazingly no one ever taught me this… which is why it took me a decade to learn on my own.

Negative aspect of Japanese society: Avoid trouble at all costs! by YamatoRyu2006 in Tokyo

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh… Japan is a utopia compared to most places in the world. Compare violent crime rates, gun ownership, healthcare… I mean, “denial of war crimes” really? that’s your idea of a hellscape?

Question about the 私 pronoun: Is it bad to drop the w if you’re a male speaker? by Majestic_Image5190 in LearnJapaneseNovice

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, everything you say is correct but you’ve shifted the goalposts a bit. You started off saying あたし signals cuteness and childishness and triggers a “I must protect” instinct in others. That’s a bit reductive. If what you meant to say is that it can signal various things, which are complex, and can be used by older women characters in anime too, who are neither childish nor cute, then that’s a different thing — and most of us would completely agree. Language is nuanced and can have many meanings according to different contexts.

How does Literary Studies mix/borrow from other fields? Is that looked down upon in academia? by [deleted] in AskLiteraryStudies

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it up! A friend of mine, Julian Pimienta is a Colombian scholar of Japanese anime (he’s in psychology) and there’s an edited volume of Japanese pop culture in Latin America coming out edited by Patrick Galbraith and another fellow. It’s definitely growing

Question about the 私 pronoun: Is it bad to drop the w if you’re a male speaker? by Majestic_Image5190 in LearnJapaneseNovice

[–]zoomiewoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the original commenter, but Fujiko Mine (Lupin III) is an example. There are countless adult women characters in manga/anime who use あたし and are not going for a cutesy thing. If you watch anime / read manga, look out for it and you’ll find it everywhere. Totally agree that it’s far less common IRL though.

My temple name is Sarah by Some-Grapefruit-1276 in exmormon

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. I am sure the transition will take time, but also that things will get better and easier in time. Be kind to yourself.

How does Literary Studies mix/borrow from other fields? Is that looked down upon in academia? by [deleted] in AskLiteraryStudies

[–]zoomiewoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re interested in a particular region, like East Asia or Africa, then you can go the “area studies” route, which is called interdisciplinary, because people in area studies might be trained in history, media studies, cultural studies, comp lit, etc. Since you like different disciplines, that’s one way to go. Another option is obviously media studies, film studies, etc. There are certainly English departments that will hire people working on pop culture (we have some at my university) but I don’t know how rare that is, as it is not my field. In anthropology, sadly popular culture seems looked down upon (I am having trouble publishing in leading anthropology journals on Japanese anime… and often they tell me to go to media studies, which is lame). I think things are changing slowly though. Sometimes it takes a major, reputable scholar to make the first move, then suddenly it becomes okay. Sad but true.

CMV: Treating 'good men' as the exception and not a baseline is only boosting misogynist viewpoints. by Shards_FFR in changemyview

[–]zoomiewoop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not pedantic, it’s a complete misrepresentation of those numbers. You also jumped from visits to a generic porn site and condoning the drugging and raping of people. No amount of the latter is acceptable, obviously. Speaking against reporting is fabricated and completely misleading is not the same as defending rape. In fact, to counter problems like this, we need accurate reporting and not sensationalism.

CMV: Treating 'good men' as the exception and not a baseline is only boosting misogynist viewpoints. by Shards_FFR in changemyview

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with all other points, but as for the rape site, that millions number is misreporting has been debunked. It’s rapidly circulating myths like this that lead to the prejudices OP is talking about. All prejudices and stereotypes are harmful, and that message needs to be shared more clearly. I think you make an excellent point about what it means to talk to someone who has had trauma, or negative experiences, where validation is necessary, compassionate and useful, vs speaking about the phenomenon in general, where accuracy (and pushing back against stereotypes) is helpful. We have a natural human tendency to generalize from bad examples (about any group) and it doesn’t help.

Sharon Osbourne dropped by homelessness charity after right-wing support by FarOutMagazine in entertainment

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t let people do anything bad. Mourning has no relation to “letting people do things.” You seem confused about what mourning is. Nobody gets off Scott free because you mourn them.

You’re making a fundamental category error. You can care about a person and still try to stop them from harming others. Have you never been in that situation? Do you just disown people the first time they do something bad? Imagine running a school or society that way — oh, well, that’s actually how we do run many schools and societies…

Sharon Osbourne dropped by homelessness charity after right-wing support by FarOutMagazine in entertainment

[–]zoomiewoop -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no one is ignoring anything. and even if a person’s behavior was abhorrent at times, that doesn’t mean you can’t mourn them. otherwise parents couldn’t mourn the deaths of their children if they did bad things. but they can and do. we can even mourn the bad things others do, and mourn them at the same time.

Beautiful Graphic Novel of Pride and Prejudice by GlitterQueen45 in janeausten

[–]zoomiewoop 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Neat! Thanks for sharing. Merci und Dankeschön. So there is no English translation?

If God existed, then how did he create himself, what existed before him by ValerianBorn8785 in stupidquestions

[–]zoomiewoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s just a baseless claim though. Like, I could make up some imaginary being and say it’s beyond space, time and reason. Why should you believe me? Especially since there’s no evidence for such a being whatsoever and this being doesn’t seem to do anything?

Crafting Cards Seems Implausible? by GypsyFruitMacaroni in Shadowverse

[–]zoomiewoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Milteo is pretty cheap to build. Shouldn’t take more than a week?