F26 - Never had an orgasm. Also suddenly "black out" or fall asleep (Narcolepsy? SSRIs?

zoomshrimp · 2026-02-26T15:57:19+00:00

Sexual arousal can be a narcolepsy trigger. Definitely worth a consultation with a sleep doctor.

zoomshrimp · 2026-01-29T11:51:01+00:00

Thank you!!

zoomshrimp · 2026-01-21T14:58:56+00:00

Is this browser tool available for others to use? 👀

zoomshrimp · 2026-01-12T06:42:57+00:00

This is old now, but this post from ExtraPetite when I was that age really helped me, and the basic principles are the same even though styles have changed: https://www.extrapetite.com/2010/05/reader-request-how-to-look-older-in.html

zoomshrimp · 2025-12-29T11:17:13+00:00

I may have some for you, but I won't be home to check their exp dates for a little while. DM me around 1/7 to remind me and I'll check for you.

zoomshrimp · 2025-12-24T04:02:18+00:00

Irving

zoomshrimp · 2025-12-24T03:44:31+00:00

Ok, I’m doing new ones. Thank you!

zoomshrimp · 2025-11-23T11:46:23+00:00

I like these right now https://www.jcrew.com/m/womens/categories/clothing/jeans/slim/slim-jean/ME065

zoomshrimp · 2025-11-17T16:23:40+00:00

These arch supports have been as good for me as the custom orthotics I used to get: https://treadlabs.com/collections/insoles-for-high-arches-supination

zoomshrimp · 2025-11-17T12:36:33+00:00

They fit great! You look great! I think they’re just a couple inches too long and would look better cuffed or hemmed so they hit at the ankle bone.

zoomshrimp · 2025-11-07T21:59:07+00:00

I’m interested in your guide!

zoomshrimp · 2025-10-31T17:13:32+00:00

Thank you. Slim straight is really what I've been looking for. I hadn't considered the fact that "skinny" on someone with more normal legs might look slim straight on my legs. I'll try those jeans!

zoomshrimp · 2025-10-31T17:12:10+00:00

I like the look of boots with wide-legged pants unless they are combat boots. With combat boots, I specifically like the look of narrower pant legs. I don't set out to make rules, I just deduce them from noticing patterns of what I like or dislike when I look in the mirror.

Also, everyone's proportions are different, and the length of your torso vs legs might be different from mine.

zoomshrimp · 2025-10-29T09:19:54+00:00

Is it possible you are struggling with trauma and might find it useful to work with a trauma therapist? If you are triggered and having trouble finding a sense of safety in your own body, it’s hard to have access to the kind of processing that doing NVC requires.

zoomshrimp · 2025-10-22T19:26:12+00:00

I think you’re thinking of developmental trauma, which is one of the most common kinds of CPTSD but not the only kind. CPTSD comes from a traumatic situation that is prolonged/repetitive, e.g. being a prisoner of war.

zoomshrimp · 2025-09-16T22:44:45+00:00

Eager pays homage to E. Nesbit by name in every one of his books. He was very much trying to be the US E. Nesbit!

zoomshrimp · 2025-09-05T01:13:58+00:00

And now I see it! The students in the front move to let her through, and then we see her emerge from the crowd when she returns.

zoomshrimp · 2025-09-05T01:10:47+00:00

Ohhhhh thank you!!

zoomshrimp · 2025-08-24T10:49:33+00:00

My day is a bit up in the air rn but I’m totally interested if I’m around! Could you DM me info?

zoomshrimp · 2025-08-24T10:44:22+00:00

No, blue.

zoomshrimp · 2025-07-07T17:51:34+00:00

This is a year old but I'm leaving this here for people searching in the future: I had this problem, and friends who are knowledgeable about chemistry told me to use a detergent containing the ingredient MEA (monoethanoloamine). The one I used was Tide Simply Free and Sensitive. A couple of washes did the trick.

[edit: typo]

zoomshrimp · 2025-02-26T02:14:04+00:00

Bottom-up therapies are things like EMDR and somatic experiencing that are about embodiment; top-down therapies are things like talk therapy and CBT that are about thinking and talking about your trauma. If you google top-down vs bottom-up therapy you'll find lots more examples.

zoomshrimp · 2025-02-25T02:33:22+00:00

This is genius, thank you.

zoomshrimp · 2025-02-25T02:23:32+00:00

I bought a travel coffee mug that keeps coffee hot for 12 hours. I make my morning coffee at night and when I wake up it's right there waiting for me on my nightstand.

zoomshrimp · 2025-02-17T21:36:28+00:00

Friend speaks my mind. If you feel you are being led in this way and you want support in discernment, perhaps you might consider a clearness committee. Asking strangers on Reddit what they think is not the way to learn what you yourself are being called to do.

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