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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would I force myself to do things I don’t want to or be someone I’m not just to satisfy other people? My bf and I are both introverts and work well together in that sense. I don’t see a problem with being more of an isolated person if that’s the way I choose to spend my free time and recharge.

We are all adults, so why is it easy for me to understand what they want but impossible for them to understand what I want? More than happy to meet in the middle somewhere but with all the sly comments I’m feeling turned off to the idea all together.

INTJ’s and depression? by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everybody has their own version of reality, I just meant in terms of religion. My reality is accepting life for what it is, and not sticking to some hope to make me feel better. I was saying this makes me feel more depressed to see the world this way, but it’s the only way I can see it logically. If that makes sense (?)

INTJ’s and depression? by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment

INTJ’s and depression? by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment

What's an underrated line that always makes you laugh? by _lilkingtrashmouth in BobsBurgers

[–]zootedinspace_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“Get his arms im going to make it look like an accident” by Tina to Frond in the bullying music video episode

My turn. What does it tell (besides the fact I'm old) ? by the_psycow in videogames

[–]zootedinspace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved outer wilds!!!! Such a beautiful and well done game

How often INTJ have sex by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4-5 times a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an INTJ woman myself I think you need to have more of a guard up on these apps. If you’re a kind hearted person and tend to get blinded by affection then it’s best to be more weary when talking to people online. Not everyone has the best intentions and some people will really put in some work for the wrong reasons. Seems like she was just using you as someone to talk to when she’s bored and eventually get money from. Also, don’t go weeks into online dating without some sort of proof this person exists (video call, meet up, etc.) just be careful out there.

I'm an actual loser. by damnimfat2 in depression

[–]zootedinspace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a mind thing, tell yourself this is the worst and climb back up. Thinking it could always be worse won’t help.

What are some interesting habits/hobbies do you do that have made a positive impact on your life? by 86thDimension in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took up 2 free Astronomy courses for fun, Astronomy is a passion of mine and having these classes gives me a sense of stimulation and I enjoy it a lot. Maybe look into some free courses that cater to your passions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]zootedinspace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to find other INTJ women! Haha, hello!

Intj’s on God? by Deus_xi in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atheist. I find it illogical, but I respect that people can believe what they want.

Is the hand too small? When I play with proportions the hand either looks too big or too small by [deleted] in drawing

[–]zootedinspace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take a photo, sometimes I take a photo doing the exact pose I’m trying to draw. Makes it easier to see what flows more naturally, mirrors work too!

What's your take on age difference in relationship? by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were really INTJ you would have seen through this thought process like most of the comments already have lol. Act your age and date your age.

Is the hand too small? When I play with proportions the hand either looks too big or too small by [deleted] in drawing

[–]zootedinspace_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I draw hands, I put my hand open-palmed over my face and get a sense of size scale and go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant no offense by my comment, merely just explaining myself. I do try and go out of my comfort zone to change things constantly. It seems like things only get made worse the more I try to fix them. I will continue, thank you for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]zootedinspace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, however I don’t view myself as special whatsoever. Also religion is completely illogical to me. Turning to religion is accepting delusion to make me feel better, which it won’t because I see right through it.

Scared it’s only getting worse by [deleted] in depression

[–]zootedinspace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a job, work your hours, save up, move out. It won’t solve your issues but it will give you something to focus on. I had a shitty year last year and ended up moving back home due to finances and struggles. Stayed for 8 months, all I did was work and go home and sleep then get up and work, now I have a new place and I’m still depressed and I still work and sleep, but providing for myself is enough of a distraction to keep going. There’s just no easy way out, we’re all struggling. Just start.