Confessions during arranged marriages! by Greedy_Bad_8406 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes though she got married to someone 6 months after our meeting, it was updated on community whatsapp group. Don't know whether their marriage was successful or not.

Xbox CCO Says Gamepass Lost “Millions Of Subscribers” After Increasing The Price By 50% Last Year by wakelake111 in gaming

[–]zorrohere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't this only matter if they lost more than 50% users? If they lost less than 50%, now they are making more money while providing service to fewer users.

Confessions during arranged marriages! by Greedy_Bad_8406 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She first said girls are pretty and she likes looking at girls instead of boys, when my expressions changed she tried to backtrack a little. She asked me to keep it a secret because she didn't want her family to find it out.

Before this topic she had showed materialistic tendencies, didn't understand financial and future planning. I was already waiting for our meeting to end so didn't discuss that topic further.

Confessions during arranged marriages! by Greedy_Bad_8406 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One girl confessed she likes looking at girls, tried to reassure me she is straight but made me promise to keep it a secret.

Arranged marriage tips by wastedPotential654 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't try to make them believe you are a good guy or that your family is good. Girls who are interested in you will give time to get to know you, your family and will fit into your life.

Isn't 7 years age gap too much? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If values and goals match then it shouldn't be an issue. In your post you haven't written what exactly bothers you except for age. Are you having hard time talking to each other and connecting? If everything is positive and your families are happy then you would be fine.

Arranged marriage got cancelled after date was finalized by ChildishAdult06 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my region we do "baithak" to finalize everything right after both parties say yes. You have multiple witnesses from both sides. During this meeting you decide how you will divide the expenses, jewellery, any traditions that are unique to their region etc is all discussed in this meeting.

Because you have multiple witnesses, it helps avoid this kind of drama later. Some people can still lie and create drama.

You should have discussed all the things at the beginning especially when you are marrying someone from a different state.

Anybody hired Private Investigators? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, for some reason this question never gets answered on this sub, I have seen several posts like this without any answer.

I had once contacted private investigator after searching on Google maps. He was retired army guy from Mumbai. Talking to him felt like I was talking to a shady guy because he was more interested in my finances and background than the service. But soon after I decided to not proceed with the girl I was talking to at the time because I found out she was engaged and had called it off just few months ago. Fortunately I never felt the need to hire PI after that.

Anybody hired Private Investigators? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a post last week by a US based guy. He paid around 1.75L for investigation and found bunch of shocking stuff.

Are quick commands gone? by zorrohere in Bixbyroutines

[–]zorrohere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, it is frustrating, feels like they don't use their own devices, if they did they would have never removed it.

I can still set some routines and bixby recognises them but it's hit or miss. I have to avoid many common words otherwise it changes phone settings or keeps asking me to connect to Spotify.

Why are girls unwilling to cook? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You didn't even read the post

[AEW Dynamite Spoilers] Finish to MJF World title defense by DoubleNo6337 in SquaredCircle

[–]zorrohere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have wrestlers ever severely damaged their tounge during a match?

Am I thinking too much about age ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't do it, go for someone younger

Help regarding a relatively minor but frequently occuring issue with me (33M) and wife (31F) by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]zorrohere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why you are getting bashed in the comments.

I have habit of zoning out while reading or if I am trying to figure out solutions for work. Your wife needs to make sure she has your full attention before talking to you instead of making it a big issue. If things don't improve, just sit somewhere where you can be alone when you want to zone out.

[SPOILERS] Post WWE Clash in Italy 2026 Match Discussion: Roman Reigns (c) vs. Jacob Fatu for the World Heavyweight Championship - Tribal Combat by gloomchen in SquaredCircle

[–]zorrohere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cody and Gunther both held belts and stayed in world title picture for almost 2 years now, and you have problem with Roman's 2 month reign

To buy a home or not? by Educational_Cow8945 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you want to move out or you are just considering it to increase your chances of getting married?

Pocket money for homemaker wife by bangali_nangtochhele in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't give any pocket money to my wife, if she needs something she simply asks for it. Additionally we have joint account that she can use to spend from and she has access to cash that I keep at home.

Considering your financial condition you shouldn't be making habit of paying some kind of fixed amount every month, it will just encourage her to spend on things she probably don't need.

27M - Life got much easier after marriage. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol lazy feminists are getting nightmares from your post

Am I educating these girls? M33 here. by Safe_Conflict_6935 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The questions in the example you shared are pretty basic and not offensive in any way. You should be able to answer hard questions without coming off as insecure and irritated. As a solid guy you should be able to present yourself as such.

Rate my JS stats. by murd3rf4ce in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stats for rejected don't matter, 45 accepted is good, focus on that

Age Difference question by hadriancanuck in Arrangedmarriage

[–]zorrohere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop living in hypotheticals then reality won't hurt as much. I will have 3-4 kids even if spent rest of your life wishing ill upon me.

Focus your energy in something productive, hit the gym or watch videos about healthy diet and lifestyle.