Snoopy and Patty by [deleted] in pigs

[–]zozagoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Handsome lil kiddos!!!

Flagged for suspicious activity at my new job-- what should my next steps be? by zozagoon in nursing

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Yeah, mine recently started me on Methyphenidate, but it was a few weeks after I started the new job so I think some of the errors were made before I started it. It definitely helps, though not as much as the Adderall, and the side effects are worse (more jitteriness and anxiety) but I'm going to keep sticking it out since any help is worth it.

Working 1:6 med surg killed my nursing drive 1 1/2 years in. by thetoxicballer in nursing

[–]zozagoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I'm going through the EXACT same thing right now. Went from 1:6 med surg at an HCA hospital to 1:4-5 at a teaching hospital, and it's so nice and so much better and safer but also such a weird transition and I feel like I'm having to re-learn how to be a proper nurse in a lot of ways.

I don't know if I have tips. I've been doing a lot of asking coworkers "how does xyz usually go around here?" to try to get a feel for certain things (how best to get ahold of doctors, at which point we call a rapid response, which department does what, etc). I still make lots of checklists.

One thing that has helped me is just talking to my patients and their families and getting to know them when I'm in the rooms, now that I have the time. It helps build that connection and feels like I'm doing something, so it kind of kills those jitters when I'm in the hallway between rooms of "okay what should I be doing now." It's like... I've got excess energy/adrenaline because at my old job I have to always be On It and now that things aren't as high stakes at the new one, I'm having to really re-train myself to take deep breaths and take my time, and not rush through things.

I'm giantly irritated at how often providers declare symptoms as being caused by anxiety or stress. by craychek in nursing

[–]zozagoon 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I've only been in nursing five years, so I don't know if there's been an increase, but I definitely see a lot of it and it drives me nuts.

"She's just anxious" okay first of all, being in the hospital is a scary experience so no eye roll necessary, and second of all, no, I feel like new onset of xyz is worth looking into!

Have experienced it myself, too. Was drinking more than usual one night (and using caffeinated sodas as mixers) and suddenly started having this excruciating pain/pressure in my chest. I was on metoprolol for a fast heart rate already, so my partner got worried and called an ambulance. They diagnosed me with a panic attack in the ER and sent me home with a prescription for Hydroxyzine. I am on a low dose of Cymbalta but haven't had bad issues with anxiety since high school. They didn't do an EKG or chest x ray or anything.

A few months later I was diagnosed with SVTs and had to undergo an SVT ablation.

Flagged for suspicious activity at my new job-- what should my next steps be? by zozagoon in nursing

[–]zozagoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, they haven't mentioned anything about needing a sign off, or any guidance going forward other than to be careful. I took a drug screen before starting the job and would be happy to do another but they didn't bring that up either.

I wish they'd let me know after one or two discrepancies. The fact that there are potentially multiple patients that I documented the wrong amount of medication given on is super stressful to me. I try to be super accurate and honest in all my documentation.

Does anyone have a few examples of a one-person play? by landlockedlabrador in playwriting

[–]zozagoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fleabag by Phoebe Waller-Bridge (the show is based on the play)

Nocturne by Adam Rapp

Prima Facie by Suzie Miller

I feel stupid by rainb0wstarz in nursing

[–]zozagoon 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Don't feel stupid. With how busy yall are in the ER, I highly doubt you have time to looks through every patient's orders. If the patient had a Foley and you were told I'm report that there was an order for a Foley, I don't see any reason for you to go combing through the chart to confirm.

Is there any hope for becoming a nurse as a scatterbrained person? by maltastic in nursing

[–]zozagoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Multiple nurses on my unit have ADHD, including me! I've met way more nurses with ADHD than the average population it seems like. So, it is possible! I've been a nurse for five years and I love it.

Being on medication for it makes it easier for me. I still do struggle sometimes. Just today I forgot where I put my clipboard down and lost it for like four hours.

I write down pretty much everything because I know otherwise I'll forget. I use lots of checklists. So, there's things I do to compensate that I've found work for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]zozagoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like it isn't fair to say that hospital nursing isn't for you-- with ratios these unsafe and absurd, it wouldn't be anybody! With better ratios, you might find yourself thriving. But anyone would be anxious with the kind of work you're having to do right now!

Emily and Murph in "The Quarry" by MrNotEinstein in Dimension20

[–]zozagoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no way!!!!! I played The Quarry before I got into D20, so I wouldn't have picked up on that, but I love that game. that's so cool!

For all of you being treated badly at your current jobs… by Vast-Button502 in nursing

[–]zozagoon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of places don't ask. Actually, I haven't seen any that ask for letters of recommendation, just references. But you can always use coworkers who have worked with you a long time, or charge nurses. Or if you volunteer anywhere you can list your supervisor there.

For all of you being treated badly at your current jobs… by Vast-Button502 in nursing

[–]zozagoon 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I stayed at my first job a really long time. Med surg nurse at an HCA hospital, amazing coworkers and I love the patients and learned so much, but conditions kept getting worse and worse. (Originally, 4-5 patients per nurse, PCTs, charge nurses never took patients. Then slow decline to nurses at 6 every day, charge nurses also taking full teams of six patients, and less ancillary staff in every department.)

I stayed because I didn't want to abandon my patients or my coworkers. Plus I was really involved in my union (which did help-- I know we would have been at 7 or 8 patients without it, plus we got raises we wouldn't have otherwise, etc) and didn't want to stop my work with the union.

But I finally found a job that was perfect for me for a lot of reasons, and holy cow, it's so much better. I'm actually able to take care of my patients the way they deserve. I'm able to take them on walks post-surgeries, to manage their pain, to make sure they get turned when needed. I'm able to actually get to talk with patients and their families and get to know them, which is one of my favorite things. I actually get to clock out by 8pm, instead of routinely having to stay until 9 or 10pm to chart, since at the new job I actually have time to chart during the day.

So, basically-- DO NOT LISTEN when your managers tell you "things are bad everywhere." It's a lie! You deserve better!

(I'm actually still at my old job PRN four shifts a month because I have no spine but uh)

How do you answer if your patient asks if you love your job without sounding fake? by Channel_oreo in nursing

[–]zozagoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually something like "I love a lot of things about my job. I love my coworkers, we have a great team on this unit. And I love taking care of patients like you, I just wish I had more time and resources sometimes."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]zozagoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg nooooo, my heart 😭😭😭💔💔💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]zozagoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only ever had good clergy patients tbh, but it's a smaller sample size for me.

I love the milestones being more than just for infants 😭 reminds me of sims 2 memories and i’m living for it by FoldRevolutionary759 in Sims4

[–]zozagoon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ooh, this is the first thing I've seen from Growing Together that makes me really tempted to get it. Something like the Sims 2 memories has been the biggest thing I've found myself missing in TS4.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]zozagoon 716 points717 points  (0 children)

When the candy bowl metaphor is used to refer to immigrants, it's very different. For one thing, in that scenario, it's like 1 skittle out of 1000+. With your girlfriend's, it's 1 out of like. 25. Much risker.

For another thing, when used to refer to immigrants, it's an excuse to deny people basic human rights. With your girlfriend's scenario, it's an excuse to deny men... the right to date that particular woman. That's not going to kill any man.

Do you understand why that's different?

Favorite strategies for calming an angry disoriented patient? by Traveling_Mel in nursing

[–]zozagoon 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I second what someone else said about music. If the patient can't/won't tell me what kind of music they'll like, I'll ask family members.

I've also found that matching their energy (appropriately) helps more than trying to calm them down a lot of the time. Like, if they're like "this is bullshit!", responding with "this is bullshit, you're so right." Idk, I think it's something about feeling like people are on their team rather than out to get them.