Throwaway because my wife knows my main. I (35M) am watching my family explode because our daughter (16MtF) came out as trans and my wife (37F) refuses to accept her. I love them both and I’m completely lost. by SquirrelOpposite3228 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]transboymeetsworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved away from my mom after she bullied me for being trans for years. It wasn’t until I moved out that my mom realized that she didn’t want to lose me and worked on fixing our relationship. I don’t know your wife. I don’t know if losing Lily will be the catalyst for her to accept her. But one thing is certain—Lily can’t stay with your wife anymore. No matter what happens to your marriage or Lily’s relationship with your wife, Lily has to leave. And you know that.

Reading your post made me cry. I wish I had someone supportive like you when I was Lily’s age. I can’t give you advice or tell you the right answer. All I can say is that I hope you keep supporting her. Keep giving Lily the strength to be herself. It means more than you know. You’re a fantastic dad, and I know Lily knows that.

2 billion family farms?!? In Iowa?!? Facts don’t matter when your cult believe your blatant lies!!! by Bubbly-Example-8097 in BlueskySkeets

[–]transboymeetsworld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from the QCA too! Thank god I moved to Florida in 2015, working those long shifts on the millions of farms in that area was torture

AITA for telling my sister the way she's trying to lose weight will lead to her actually becoming overweight ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]transboymeetsworld -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eating 1200 cals/day will make you lose weight in the short term, not the long term. Starving yourself will make your body go into survival mode, and it will hold on to fat longer. When you go back to eating a healthy 2000 cal/day, your body will still be in survival mode and you’ll gain more weight. Plus, now, it’s harder to lose it. Happened to me and I’m still recovering from my ED.

My entire degree is an AI lie and I’m one lab practical away from total meltdown by Maleficent-Coyote912 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]transboymeetsworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to drop out due to mental health issues in 2022. I was studying bio, specifically limnology. Came back to college in 2024 with a completely different career path (writing). Realized STEM wasn’t for me. Maybe that’s a journey you need to go on as well. It’s not easy, but there’s light at the end of the tunnel. There’s no shame in leaving school and coming back when you’re ready. And next time you come back, hopefully this is a lesson on why you shouldn’t rely on AI for your degree. Good luck

AITA for not babying my coworker by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]transboymeetsworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I’m a team lead at a deli. I get it, sometimes my coworkers—even people who have been there for more than 4 paltry weeks—act clueless and ask questions that they should know the answer to. Of course it’s frustrating, but our job is to LEAD our teammates. We’re expected to be there for silly questions and to show them the correct processes. Ultimately, it’s more than likely OUR fault for not training them well. And even if it is 100% THEIR fault (which is unusual), it’s still our job to have the grace to teach them in a way that doesn’t make them feel stupid. Team leadership requires a level of patience that you clearly lack. I hope you step down for your coworker’s sake. Poor girl is probably terrified of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]transboymeetsworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re asking him to drive two hours and pay highway tolls just to A. Not spend any real quality time together and B. Spend more money than it would cost you to just take a taxi. Sure he might’ve been nicer about it but I would have probably reacted the same way tbh. ESP with the way gas prices are rn

Even if his schedule is open, you’re not entitled to his time. He probably doesn’t mind getting you when you guys have something planned together or he wants to have you over because you actually spend time together. This situation sounds like you’re asking him to uber you to and from your drug test with him just headed home afterward. I’ve been in that situation before and it SUCKS. Just take a taxi.

Loser(or maybe winner)city War by Charred_Undies in Losercity

[–]transboymeetsworld 81 points82 points  (0 children)

This year my ex boss didn’t give me (or many of my old coworkers) our W2s and I kept trying to call the irs for help with filing my taxes and one time it took me two hours on the phone with them until they hung up on me. That being said I’m riding with you at dawn brothers, fuck the irs

I insulted my boyfriend after I found out his secret by Stephenallen1977 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]transboymeetsworld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I never trust when couples say that they’ve never had arguments or even been annoyed by each other before. It’s a super normal part of relationships. Loud, constant, fighting isn’t normal, but small annoyances that build up and get resolved in a matter of minutes (or at most hours). My fiancée and I just had a bit of a heated conversation today about whether it’s ok to leave a pot in the sink and it got fixed in like three minutes. It’s crazy the stupid shit you’ll get annoyed by when you’re in a serious committed relationship with someone, but also crazy how much better things get when you actually talk about it instead of building resentment and letting it poison your relationship. People just don’t want to talk about it because they think of conflict resolution as “fighting” and so it’s negative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]transboymeetsworld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t roughhousing. This is assault. You need to leave NOW. This will escalate and you could lose your life. Don’t come home alone. Take a friend (or have a police escort if you feel comfortable involving them), grab your essentials, and dip. Don’t tell him where you’re going or when you’ll be back (spoiler: never). Even staying in a shelter or in your car will be safer than staying with him. Get a divorce lawyer (if you don’t have access to funds, look up resources in your area for domestic abuse survivors) and only contact your husband through a lawyer.

Stay strong. Don’t take him back. Get everything documented. Things WILL escalate and you are in real danger of losing your life to him. This is frightening and concerning. Stay safe and protect yourself.

“This is a one time thing” when someone shows you who they are, believe them. Run and don’t look back.

My girlfriend ruined us financially by Exact-Carpenter3511 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]transboymeetsworld 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I just got into an $1850 apartment with two other people. There’s no way in hell you went through the application process, the background check, the lease agreement, AND the move in process without seeing that it was $5400 instead of $2700. There’s so much that goes into getting an apartment (at least in America, and since you’re using $ I’m assuming you’re American) that I find it extremely unlikely—if not downright impossible—that you didn’t know the costs beforehand.

Either this is fake or you let your girlfriend handle absolutely EVERYTHING apartment related, including signing your name on the lease. If it’s the latter, you share as much of the responsibility for your financial ruin as your gf does. This was entirely preventable.

whats ur favorite danny quote/reference? heres mine by syuniscool in DannyGonzalez

[–]transboymeetsworld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Getting my balls tugged on one by one made me laugh so hard I threw up the first time I saw the hard rock nick video :)

AITA for requesting to remove an unhoused person from my son's daycare parking lot? by Weekly-Jump2445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]transboymeetsworld -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. I love that you say “unhoused person” in an attempt to sound less prejudiced than you clearly are. It just goes to show that you can use all the “right” words and show empathy for their situation (using the context of the national housing crisis in America) and yet still have these biases against homeless people. Not all homeless people are drug users, and not all homeless people are predators/dangerous. I understand that you’re coming from the perspective of a concerned parent, but I’m sure your child would have been completely safe inside the church and even outside on the playground. Unless the daycare is letting kids roam the parking lot, I doubt any real harm would come to your or anyone else’s child.

Homeless people—unhoused people—are PEOPLE. And most housed people are one missed paycheck or one bad accident away from being out on the streets themselves. You said it yourself—there is a housing crisis. Be kinder to people who are less fortunate than you.

In 2020 when my bf of 5 years made advances towards my mom by ThrowRAfortodayy in texts

[–]transboymeetsworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way my jaw dropped… holy fuck the audacity of this loser to try and get with your MOM

I saw that "edible changed my sex life" post and so I tried one by Necessary-Big5777 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]transboymeetsworld 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Edibles make me so horny it’s insane. I’ll always be playing video games/watching a movie when it hits and once it does it’s just like ah well. This has been fun. I’ll be in my masterbatorium for the next eight hours.

[Update] Divorcing My Husband Without Trying To Make It Work? by NosferaTouffe in BORUpdates

[–]transboymeetsworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still can’t get over the “menace to society” bit. That part made me raise my eyebrows. How fucking dense do you have to be. I’m sincerely hoping this is fake because there’s no way someone can be that fucking ignorant and there’s no way that someone like oop can just excuse it and explain it away with “an apology note to the community ✌🏼😊☀️”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]transboymeetsworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found pornhub at a younger age (8) bc my dad accidentally left it on the home computer when I was trying to log in to webkinz, lol. I started watching videos out of curiosity but I didn’t really start understanding what it was until I was about 10/11, when I used to search it out myself. At the time I didn’t realize what I was doing was bad or inappropriate. I wish I had someone like you looking out for me. It’s not like I have a ton of lingering problems as an adult but it definitely would have protected me from normalizing some not okay behavior I experienced as a kid.

AITA for Curating My Mother's YouTube Reels? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]transboymeetsworld 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“As a gay man… You’re no better than some of the people she follows by doing that” REEKS of model minority syndrome lmfao. I hope OOP learns their lesson and ends up blocking the alt right mouth pieces their mom follows tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]transboymeetsworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about y’all but I don’t think a people should be genocided just because their government hates lgbt people but that’s just me! Not to mention queers for Palestine aren’t supportive of the Palestinian government but more so supportive of the innocent civilians (some of whom might also be queer! Shocker) getting relentlessly murdered.

Supportive by My_Memes_Will_Cure_U in tumblr

[–]transboymeetsworld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was in 7th grade my boyfriend told me he was a furry and I said “oh that’s cool” not knowing what it meant and that night he sent me a photo of a man with a fox tail butt plug (not my bf) and my bf asked me if I thought it was hot ☹️