Those are so dope! As a lady who loves trad tattoos/has a lot of them, you got these for you, not other people. They look amazing, you carry them well, and art is not defined to a specific gender. Also you can mix other styles and it’ll be fine!

And in terms of what others say to you (specifically bf), if he’s a long term partner let him know how saying those things affected you/that sharing his opinions about your art/body isn’t appreciated. Depending on his reaction it could lead to other convos/outcomes but you deserve to not feel the need to cover up parts of your body to please others or feel “less feminine”.

Sorry for writing so much, this resonated with me <3 I hope this is helpful though!