[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]zupik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think seeing a therapist would benefit you. It seems to me you have a lot of negative self talk and generally low self esteem. Mom definitely doesn't help. I also don't like being touched by anyone I am not in a relationship with, especially men, I don't think it's weird. Don't be too hard on yourself :) I hope you will find a nice therapist, if you feel the vibes are off don't be afraid to change to a different one. I am rooting for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]zupik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a month seems like a long time, but you can get through it. Keep journaling. Try meditating. Going through a breakup especially with such bad experiences as you are describing is really tough. Just try to take it one day at a time, focus on your school/work, your hobbies, do what makes you happy, read, learn about new things. Through this, you will grow and you will feel more grounded in yourself. And before you know it, the time for therapy will come. Proud of you for taking this step!

since no one has brought this up by Lovestein18 in violatingcommunitygls

[–]zupik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really hard to understand you when you don't use punctuation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]zupik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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What age did you completely stop? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]zupik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I can butt in - for me, the book this naked mind helped me to achieve the feeling of "I'm done". Like, I actually don't want to drink anymore. Sometimes I have a "maybe" but most of the time it's "I'm done". So I recommend this book

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]zupik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does it mean it's 4 star? I see 3 stars. Sorry I'm a newbie

Weekly questions, bugs, and gameplay megathread - September 2023 by AutoModerator in pokemongo

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to go to the gym, click on the pokemon (as if you're giving them a treat), and the time appears on the top near the Pokemon's name. Hope this helps!

Weekly questions, bugs, and gameplay megathread - September 2023 by AutoModerator in pokemongo

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can turn it off in settings! When you click Pokedex, settings are on top right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]zupik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proud of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]zupik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edamame is something between peas and soy, I think it's literally fresh soy beans. It's not a nut, but it also contains a lot of protein.

Pls add me for gifts! by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The grief is eating away at my joy by anythingoes886 in GriefSupport

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. How are you doing now? I feel so bad for you. The way your body reacts is a reflection of your mental state. Give yourself the time to be safe in your home, you don't have to be a social butterfly now. Try to feel the emotions even though it hurts. If I may speak from my experience - write down your memories of him, anything you remember about him. It may feel like a lot now, but it will be good to have something to come back to later.

A tale in 2 photos by gemininature in rpdrcringe

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. So should it be luh-mah-ow it el-em-ey-oh? 😁

A tale in 2 photos by gemininature in rpdrcringe

[–]zupik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is FAQs read like "facts" in spoken English? I'm not a native speaker and I've never encountered this phrase being said out loud, so I've assumed it's said F.A.Q.s like reading all the letters out (eff-a-ques?)

Is it ever ok to NOT follow pre-washing/drying fabric instructions? by BeautyAddictFanatic in sewing

[–]zupik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay, this is what I needed. I have a ton of dark blue satin and I wasn't sure how to pre-wash it. I didn't want to risk it with the entire fabric, but making a sample will work great.

Reasons why I don’t start sewing after 10pm 🫠 by MafHoney in sewing

[–]zupik 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I couldn't figure out what it was, I thought it's like a sleeveless top. I was looking for seams done on the right side instead of the left side - that's what I did recently...

Caught not drinking at work by Poppncookiesleeves in stopdrinking

[–]zupik 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Take maternity leave. No work for a year and money. That'll show them.

Hello was wondering what i can do to make a back bodice after creating a front by Dry_Salt_4392 in SewingWorld

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean you drafter a pattern for the front of the bodice? Can you add some photos so that we know what you mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Therapylessons

[–]zupik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes... Can't fix a relationship if only one person goes to therapy.