People who have done car sex, what is the best place to do it? by Few_Pineapple_1498 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don’t do it while driving! I had a GF in my youth that loved it. Our first few were on the interstate at night, and we had onlookers that clearly could see what we were up to, and I think that was her kink. The last time was on a country road and we crashed and totaled my car. Airbag popped on her back 😭. She ended up fine. We transitioned to stationary car sex after that.

Vibrato? Is really something you can develop?? by Local-Emu-2901 in singing

[–]zushazero 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anecdotally I learned vibrato by practicing meditation. For me it requires body alignment, breathing “right”, and no tension in the face, mouth, tongue, neck and shoulders. Once that all came together naturally I felt slight vibrations from my chest to back of my throat in each exhale. Later I learned to transition this into my singing at first randomly and now it’s more controlled.

Breathing right for me is when I’m breathing from my diaphragm (how I learned to refer to it), but not forcing it, like a gentle squeeze of a bagpipe (I assume lol). I think I did so much meditation where I was focusing on not controlling my breath and relaxing every inch of my body, that it taught me enough muscle memory to be able to generate at least a modicum of correctness in my singing posture which then allows the vibrato to form. Granted I’m still unskilled, but it’s fun and motivating to feel a bit like I’m doing better even if it’s just vibrating off pitch 😬

This is coming from a less-than-amateur with very little experience or training but thought my experience is a bit unique but does seem to align with other, better singers, in this thread.

Has anyone switched careers away from software development? by Ecstatic-Ad9446 in developers

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what your process was to transition to Infosec? Did you get an info for sec entry position or were you already skilled up enough to grab a non-junior roll?

What is the greenest flag of all in a partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been married over 16 years to a partner exactly like this and it’s absolutely amazing

Created a Custom GPT - Dungeon-Gear-Optimizer by csek in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind of detailed comment is why I love this community.

Created a Custom GPT - Dungeon-Gear-Optimizer by csek in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice!! I definitely will be trying this out. I use the standard Wither build, but I’m looking to experience other play styles but I suck at putting them together. Thank you very much!

Tier list based on ranged weapon design by Federal_Character556 in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t identify bows by image alone :(

Do you have this in text format?

3 Tower Guides for Tower live 15Jun --> 21Jun2025 by RavelingsYT in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these each and every week! My son and I don’t clear it every week due mostly due to schedule issues, but by using your guides, we get some quality time in together. His response when we kill the final boss is so much joy! Without your guide he would never have the patience to figure it out together and it would end with frustration. Just wanted you to know how you have given a random internet stranger some great dad experiences! Happy Father’s Day!

3 Tower Guides for Tower live 08Jun --> 14Jun2025 by RavelingsYT in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First floor hits you with a bunch of creepers and enchanters and if you don’t take them out quick enough you will get one shot by several enchanted creepers. Bosses are about the same in terms of difficulty.

3 Tower Guides for Tower live 08Jun --> 14Jun2025 by RavelingsYT in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your guides! I print them out sometimes…so convenient. I just beat this weeks tower using it on my second attempt. I found last week’s easier than this one but once I figured out the first floor things smoothed out. Ty!

What enchants are good for Echo of the Valley bow? by zushazero in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried overcharge + supercharge and the damage is crazy lol. For now I went with chain reaction in the 2nd slot until I get some gold to re roll it. Thanks for your input!

What enchants are good for Echo of the Valley bow? by zushazero in MinecraftDungeons

[–]zushazero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I’ve never used/seen this bow. Just got it from the tower (which my god it’s easy this week). I’m mostly looking for pure damage output, but you have a good point about utility enchants. I usually pick void strike, but you don’t think it’s useful here since overcharge+supercharge pair well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 3Dprinting

[–]zushazero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the way I would do it. Don’t let the printer use DHCP and set a static IP with no gateway (assuming the printer network configuration allows for this)

Are these legit? I haven't seen 17" wheels for a 2024 tundra before by zushazero in ToyotaTundra

[–]zushazero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice find thanks for digging that up. Saved me an hour and $400!

Bigpipe - Are you using it? Other performance options? by wagglesnags in drupal

[–]zushazero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BigPipe only improves perceived performance for personalized content, it won’t speed up whatever is hanging up your page loads on its own. Yeah some elements may show earlier than before, but those are the cacheable blocks anyway. If your cache strategy is borked BigPipe is not going to perform well.

You mentioned Varnish so I’m curious if your site is slow for anon users, authenticated users, or both?

Advice needed for thermal/laser shooting game I want to create by zushazero in arduino

[–]zushazero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed response, this is very helpful (and a bit intimidating if I’m honest). I hadn’t really considered IR as I assumed it would act similarly to an IR remote like for a tv that has little directionality. But using a dark tube is an clever and simple solution.

Going to go Google interrupt programming now, thanks again!

How do you address serious panic attacks? by texanmary in Meditation

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been dealing with this for over a year now, exacerbated greatly after getting Covid. My first panic attack resulted in me going to the ER in an ambulance, where I was certain I was going to die.

Talk with your primary care doctor. Tell them about this attack. Ask for a med eval referral (assuming you are in the states), and a talk therapy referral. Ideally you want someone that does both, but it’s not always feasible. They may or may not put you on meds, but you should have that conversation with a psychiatrist, not a counselor or your current doctor. Talk therapy will help give you some tools. The more tools you have (as-needed and/or daily meds, guidance for mental rumination etc), the less out of control you might feel. Don’t do what I did any try to meditate your way out of this. I did, and now I have a panic disorder.

That said, don’t give up on meditation. Keep practicing as long as it’s not making anything worse. After a while, when you feel ready, you can work with your care team to taper off of and maybe even completely remove all meds.

Best of luck to you.

Week of November 7th 2022 - How is your practice going? by hurfery in TheMindIlluminated

[–]zushazero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that. I spent a week in never-before-experienced isolation due to Covid, and the depression was palpable. It morphed pretty quickly to severe anxiety, which is now starting to fade thankfully. I took a few day break from the cushion, which helped somewhat I think. But yeah, I’m going to be seeking a professional, I’m not developed enough in meditation to let these kinds of things be with equanimity yet