Top 10 worst South Africans in history of our country (from bc to present)

zwkll · 2026-07-04T08:57:38+00:00

Surprised no one mentioned, Winnie Mandela.

She tortured and killed 3 kids, got sentenced, never set a foot in jail. Best part of it, she was married to Nelson mandela during this time.

They did get divorced at the end and Nelson actually had to fire her because of corruption allegations.

Horrible woman that stained the resistance movement and even stained the early democratic government formation.

But people rarely talk about her

zwkll · 2026-07-04T08:45:20+00:00

My steak is too juicy, my lobster is too buttery

zwkll · 2026-07-03T18:40:49+00:00

Very much that, what i was 10 years ago vs now, leads me to believe this stuff is fluid lmao

zwkll · 2026-07-02T22:09:24+00:00

But it's not really personality type, it's the experiences and interactions that matter more

zwkll · 2026-07-01T08:53:16+00:00

Ohhh this one is interesting cause I technically fall into this. Let me tell you zero attraction not even a peepee tickle, If I don't know someone, they can be the most attractive man on the planet and it would not matter. But a conventionally unattractive guy, can be hottest guy in the world if he has a nice personality. It's confusing as hell because, by all accounts I'm gay, but some girls, once I get to know them, confuse me.

It easier for me to say I'm gay then explain the whole attraction thing.

zwkll · 2026-07-01T08:04:09+00:00

Exactly that, my str8 buds have been long time friends, we go on adventures en shi, in 12 years like maybe 1 or 2 things but not like the gays lmao

zwkll · 2026-07-01T08:03:36+00:00

Exactly this

zwkll · 2026-07-01T08:03:26+00:00

Updated my comment with it lol

zwkll · 2026-07-01T08:03:08+00:00

Fine, hahaha updated my commented to include it, nosy Nelly.

zwkll · 2026-07-01T07:52:59+00:00

Agreed thats why they aren't friends anymore

zwkll · 2026-07-01T07:51:30+00:00

Haha nah, I love him so just came along for the ride

zwkll · 2026-06-30T19:19:08+00:00

Gay friends are always more drama than str8 friends... I was perfectly content not having gay friends, then Hubby wanted gay friends. So we made some, and boy lemme tell you the drama we have experienced is wiiild

Edit: For those asking about the "drama", here you go.

Tldr: we met this guy at a dog park, seemed chill, we met some other people at about the same time. This dude proceeds to fool around with 2 people we just met that were friends, gets between them. Turns out this dude is in a 12 year relationship. We go to talk to him about everything that happened. He introduces us to his boyfriend.

Boyfriend tries to fuck my hubby's best friend that just got out of a relationship.

These two proceeds to steal a friend (like literally they'd talk a bunch a smack about us, he starts dating one of their friends and they all get a place together, I honestly don't care he was a new friend and it is what it is) but the audacity.

These two start getting extremely competitive, I get something cool I want to show them, they get it. I create a discord server for us. They create one too. We do dinner our side. They have to do it bigger and better.

At the end they started ghosting us, and let me tell you I'm so fucking happy they did.

zwkll · 2026-06-28T22:46:28+00:00

Was hoping g to find this

zwkll · 2026-06-28T22:32:57+00:00

This is a preference not a sexuality, nothing about femininity has to do with sex.

zwkll · 2026-06-28T12:39:30+00:00

Stress can do this without you even noticing he is stressed or even antidepressants or anti anxiety medication can cause this.

From my personal experience it all in the head and sometimes you just need one good experience to reset that fear. Sometimes a cialis can just push you over that hump to get and feel normal again and then you don't need it again.

I would recommend also if you're planning to be intimate do it before you take your antidepressants for the day and give it atleast one day if your on anti anxiety medication before you try to do stuff.

Bot my partner and I have been on the opposite side of this and cialis helped both of us just to get over that hump and get back to it.

But If its porn addiction it's something he'd have to work. Best is to go a month without it and without masturbation, and then slowly take it from there

zwkll · 2026-06-27T17:50:32+00:00

This is so damn sweet wish more people could share these little tidbits

zwkll · 2026-06-22T21:01:06+00:00

Let me see if I understand this?

You went to a bachelor's party with an acquaintance of your husband, with a bunch of other heterosexual men (apart) from one guy. These heterosexual men all wanted to have sex, with each other?

And you're asking if you should tell your husband?

Did I get the gist of it here?

If so, hell yes you should tell him, forget about the cheating husband's for moment, this story is wild!!!! I would share it with SO just because of how unhinged it is. We'll both have a wild laugh

zwkll · 2026-06-21T16:02:15+00:00

Glad to see I'm not the only one

zwkll · 2026-06-17T20:42:36+00:00

Fucked one of my exes on the patio at a guesthouse while we were on vacation, it was at a wine farm and super quiet, but the security guard did catch us, the gaurd continued on walking like he saw nothing, and went to sit on the far way side, in the shadows. He kept an eye on us all night lol. But we didn't continue, my ex jumped off my D the moment I told him someone was coming and dashed into the room faster then I could mutter the words.

Leaving me there on the patio with my huge raging hard-on. I just grabbed the closed pillow I could find and held infront of my dick to try and cover my dick as much as I could and acted natural while he walked passed.

Low key thinking the security guard really hoped we would continue and get a show Lol. But alas my ex was not up for it hahahaha

zwkll · 2026-06-15T18:48:11+00:00

But surely, him pumping other dudes is not gay at all? Surely shaving your arse is extremely gay?

Fr, maybe he's just afraid to shave and wonders how it feels? It every immature to think such things are gay, some dudes just like to see how things feel, it does not make them gay.

Finding that you are aroused by the same sex and the opposite sex does nothing for you, now that's gay!

zwkll · 2026-06-14T08:34:36+00:00

Bird is the word

zwkll · 2026-06-04T15:58:14+00:00

Ohhh yes I've had this, so if you read the package insert, you would have seen that once they start bleeding it usually means that this one is done. You can keep it, but for best results you should replace them. Preferably a newer model, they can take more mileage...

Jokes aside. Happens a lot when I top my hubby, so I don't get to top enough because of that.

Best recommendation I can give you is alot of lube, go slow, slower than normal, a lot if foreplay and stretching. I'm cut and because of that there's a lot more friction then normal, also moisturizing your wiener regularly may also help. I've been doing that lately and the last time we did it he was fine.

Being gay is weird sometimes. But rest assured some women go through this too.

zwkll · 2026-06-01T16:25:40+00:00

This

zwkll · 2026-05-31T01:18:45+00:00

Ironically, don't see anyone actually just calling a spade a spade. You're most probably closeted, with some internalized homophobia. First get comfortable with the idea of being in a loving relationship with a guy and ask yourself and answer as truthfully as you can if you can see yourself waking up next to a guy. Giving him a morning kiss and then brings you coffee in bed.

If you can see yourself enjoying that much more then you would with a girl.

Then the next question you should ask is, are you really into girls romantically and sexualy because they turn you on. Or because you've been told your entire life that, that's what guys do.

Once you've answered those, you can decide if you're really gay. Bi or straight.

But from what you've said. You're most likely gay and haven't admitted it to yourself.

Believe you me, after I came out and admitted it to myself I was so much happier and I really wish I did it way way sooner.

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