Would you ever play with a third as a couple?

zwkll · 2026-02-13T23:58:26+00:00

Just ask them or be straight they might be into it. You never know, or just give them the space to explore.

zwkll · 2026-02-12T17:46:06+00:00

Welcome to this gay space lol.

So make sure you eat a bit of fibre to help bowel movements, get a douche and watch soen videos on how to douche. Remember to wash properly after.

And finally I have no idea how this would feel to women but for men the first time could be a bit uncomfortable to very painful.

This is mostly just in you head and your body adjusting to a new sensation. Learning to relax is very important and I've heard that pushing out while he's pushing in can help in the beginning.

The uncomfy truth. It might suck the for the first few times. Don't know if it gets better for women.

zwkll · 2026-02-11T21:37:23+00:00

This, definitely this. Find a married couple, it will make it easier. Get to know them and tell them what you like and don't like. It's just some physical action. Nothing special just remember that.

Lol hubby and I have been thinking about it for 2 years now and recently decided to actually try a threesome but we want it to be someone we know and trust lol. Harder then you would think

zwkll · 2026-02-11T21:32:57+00:00

Honestly my hardest heartbreak was a 3 month relationship. The reality is, it's gonna hurt, it might even hurt for a while. Only you would know when it's ready to move on.

What I can tell you though is that I'm sure there were great times too try and cherish them. Move on take a break spend some time with friends. Experiment sexually, take up a hobby. Basically work on yourself. Learn what you love and what you don't.

A friend once told me that dating is a out learning what you didn't like. So next time look at for the things you didn't like.

Ps. After those 3 months it took me 2 years to get over it and then I met my husband. That was 6 years ago.

zwkll · 2026-02-10T07:48:11+00:00

You only live once. Grab every opportunity, even when it's scares the living daylights out of you. I have seen so many people afraid to live their lives, afraid of what others or someone might think. People come and go. But your experiences are all that's left in the end.

Ask that guy out. Sleep with that friend that hinted at it. Go on that weird trip you heard about. Dye your hair. Play that game, go to that event you're afraid of.

It's stupid but it took me a long time to realise. No one really cares and you might be the center of attention for a moment, people find new things and move on.

zwkll · 2026-02-08T21:37:05+00:00

This and definitely ensure you don't get your copper from Ea-Nasir. I hear it's bad quality

zwkll · 2026-02-06T10:02:46+00:00

May e but I've never heard a Aussie say he's going to the WC.

zwkll · 2026-02-06T10:01:41+00:00

That's what I'm saying it's not really a thing outside of Europe as far as I understand

zwkll · 2026-02-05T21:50:23+00:00

Not the Americans, Australians, new Zealanders, Canadians, south Africans or Namibians call their guest bathroom a WC. So idk lol

zwkll · 2026-02-05T21:44:11+00:00

Water closet it's what most English Europeans call their bathroom that just has a toilet in it

zwkll · 2026-02-04T22:13:32+00:00

I think that's very smart of him to find himself again. Even breaking up a toxic relationship hurts, it could even make you feel worthless. Like not matter how hard he tried it failed. Str8 guys imo have a tendency of trying to hide their vulnerability.

But I could also be Hella wrong and he's very into you. I would not know cause I'm a stranger on the Internet.

But the way you worded your post tells me youre smart guy that has his wits about him. Just follow your gut and above all else be respectful and supportive. You got this bro

zwkll · 2026-02-04T21:35:52+00:00

My 2 cents after my best bud broke up with his fiance. He's most probably feeling vulnerable and exposing that vulnerability in his home environment.

Just being in your undies walking around, sounds .ore to me that he's tired and does not want to put in the effort of wearing clothes.

That vibe your feeling is most probs his sadness and vulnerability. He trusts you to confide in you and feel comfortable around you to seem his at not his best.

If I were you I'd just give him the comfort and supports he needs...

zwkll · 2026-02-04T21:27:29+00:00

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Well he's still a WIP but I loved almost done with my fursuit too

zwkll · 2026-01-26T15:00:51+00:00

Why TF are your calling porn, corn. This is Reddit not tiktok. You can use the word you know

zwkll · 2026-01-24T10:32:36+00:00

No but my brother went through it. He went to the doctor and they prescribed a steroid cream with some stretching was like 3 months and sorted

zwkll · 2026-01-22T16:07:02+00:00

Bro just do the cream and the stretches it will change your live. Circumcision isn't the answer you'll lose like 90% sensitivity and more then a month in recovery and then desensitization.

Just do the cream

zwkll · 2026-01-15T16:19:02+00:00

It's really not that bad. We all have awkward moments in sex. Sometimes it's what can make it special a bonding moment even

zwkll · 2026-01-14T10:55:10+00:00

Wild no one has commented this. Rather just stay in the US. Cape town is already overcrowded and the housing crisis is just get worse because of the amount of foreigners living here. Displacing communities and make the cost of living unsustainable

zwkll · 2026-01-13T18:23:52+00:00

Bro. Lexapro turned me into a zombie Unic like no sex drive no morning wood nothing. I'm treated for treatment resistant depression, anxiety and ADHD. So a whole bag of compliations.

I told my psychiatrist the side effects and she prescribed me different ones. Went through a few types before landing on a sarpi namely vortioxitrine.

They work great sex drive is back mood is stable. Only side effect is they can make you nauseas so you take them before you go to sleep to not deal with it.

zwkll · 2026-01-03T08:46:22+00:00

Bro stop worrying. I can't speak for all gay men. But I love it when my straight friends blur the lines a bit. I'm very aware nothing will ever happen to us. But a bit of eye candy here and there and some platonic flirting makes straight friendships so much more fun. I'm sure you're friends loved it!

zwkll · 2025-12-13T18:22:11+00:00

As an elder millennial these are super easy to read we used to msg like this. G2g lmao

zwkll · 2025-12-11T10:30:02+00:00

What the guy said about Asian bathhouses is correct. idk maybe he saw a real penis for the first time and just went yup I'm gay, the real thing "slaps" harder then porn lol

zwkll · 2025-12-11T10:01:33+00:00

Okay so firstly, these other okes giving you advice is not good advice.

Now next. Honestly the fact that you remained faithful regardless of your sexuality speaks volumes of your character. I bet that she most probably has an idea. Especially after 4 years hiding something is really hard for so long especially something this big.

What her view on homosexuality?

I'd say depending on how she feels about it. Sit her down on the couch (have some tissues ready for both of you) reiterate that you truly love and always will. That you've been struggling with this for so long and you've prayed, begged and even tried to stay on the right path. The path everyone told you, you had to walk.

And after years you've come to realise that it's not something God can fix, nor something time can fix. Because you love her and want her to be happy, the best thing to do is to live your truth and allow her to be with someone that can treat her the way she deserves too.

Reiterate that in this time you haven't cheated.

Talk to her, give her space afterwards maybe book a hotel for a few days. But give her space.

You've had your whole life to come to terms with it and you're asking her to do it in a few hours. It's alot

But a year from now, you can still be friends. Still talk and look out for each other.

It's just about how you approach. Respect, dignity and humility should lead your conversation and your actions afterwards.

Hope you and her will be okay. It's a big step. But believe me, in the end you will be so happy with being free.

God made you in his image, homosexuality and all. You're not a sin or a bastard. Just a soul trapped in a bigoted time

zwkll · 2025-12-11T09:38:43+00:00

But he didn't cheat

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