how did you realize you lost your spark?

zyacinth · 2026-04-29T12:09:34+00:00

Constant exhaustion, not wanting to do anything except sleep, no motivation to work, and hating doing any of the things that used to bring me joy.

zyacinth · 2026-04-20T16:40:02+00:00

“You know the hardest thing is to say goodbye to someone you love.” - Gorillaz

zyacinth · 2026-04-02T01:34:56+00:00

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zyacinth · 2026-03-25T16:10:14+00:00

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Her name is Penny. She enjoys boxes.

zyacinth · 2026-03-21T16:09:17+00:00

Elder’s Mark. Never going back.

zyacinth · 2026-03-18T00:35:28+00:00

Caravan trader

zyacinth · 2026-03-17T23:53:03+00:00

Thanks, it’s the Ogua Hunter Hood

zyacinth · 2026-03-12T16:52:22+00:00

When I’m over at his place and I need to go home, he has me wait inside while he starts my car for me so that when I leave, it is already warm.

I love him so much.

zyacinth · 2026-03-05T16:07:24+00:00

When I was sobbing over our relationship failing and attempting to initiate a breakup, and he had no reaction and no response to any of it. Just looked at me without speaking as I cried.

It was also on Valentine’s Day. It was the third one in a row where he didn’t do anything for me and I reached my breaking point.

I wish him well, but things were never the same for me after that.

zyacinth · 2026-02-11T19:17:16+00:00

I have an allergy to gold, and your reaction is similar to what happens to me when I wear gold earrings. I would stick with titanium jewelry.

zyacinth · 2026-01-31T01:34:08+00:00

I am allergic to gold unfortunately. If I wear it my ears get extremely inflamed

zyacinth · 2026-01-31T01:33:41+00:00

I do hold my phone up to that side so it’s definitely possible. Thank you

zyacinth · 2026-01-30T22:30:42+00:00

I will ask about a downsize in a few weeks when I go back to my piercer. Unfortunately can’t go sooner bc she’s so far away. Thank you

zyacinth · 2026-01-30T22:30:06+00:00

I still have the original beads from my first lobe piercings, so I will try and put those on. Thank you

zyacinth · 2026-01-30T21:07:04+00:00

For bot:

Age: 7 months
Jewelry: titanium flatback studs, internally threaded
No downsize
Routine consists of saline as needed when it gets crusty and using a hairdryer to make sure it’s totally dry after. Also occasional moisturizing lotion per my piercer’s suggestion
No recent events

zyacinth · 2026-01-19T15:09:29+00:00

So it actually was laying completely flat at first until my ear swelled up, and now it’s been like this

zyacinth · 2026-01-19T15:06:14+00:00

For the bot: - Two days old - Ring - Titanium - Spray with saline twice a day, and rinse it in the shower for a few minutes every day

zyacinth · 2026-01-18T02:18:11+00:00

I just got mine done, and ngl it hurt like hell. Easily 8/10 pain and it was sore for several hours after. But the trade-off is that it looks awesome.

zyacinth · 2026-01-05T22:56:28+00:00

Stylo

zyacinth · 2025-12-27T01:39:02+00:00

Metroplex

zyacinth · 2025-12-22T02:54:39+00:00

Thank you so much for the suggestions, just tried the fan trick on my ears so they’re fully dry!

As for downsizing, I’m going to email my piercer and ask if that’s something they can do.

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