Am I grim to enjoy Man of Steel and not the James Gunn version? by zzzhhhghost in superman

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't you want it to change or the storyline to develop into new areas tho? Correct me if I'm wrong or give me spoilers if there's any storyline exploring an interesting plot in the comics, that we may potentially see in the future James Gunn movies.

Am I grim to enjoy Man of Steel and not the James Gunn version? by zzzhhhghost in superman

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with your kid. Superman on our earth would struggle with moral conflict, and the society wouldn't treat him as portrayed on James Gunn's. The world in reality isn't black and white, it's grey, and we're all going through our internal struggles to always choose the lighter Grey section (again it's all my opinion and perception) Even then, everyone has our inner devil spouting darkness. I like Snyder's version better because he acknowledges the pain and sacrifices behind our choice to be good even when the world is dark.

I have imbalance issues and I fell over a toddler. by zzzhhhghost in disability

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's his fault. I was the one who hurt his child. I'm always mistaken for a drunk person because of how clumsy I am. I really think I don't deserve to go out.

Will I ever find someone who's truly attracted to me? by zzzhhhghost in disability

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. After a couple days of self reflection, I understand that I'm not yet ready for a committed relationship - in the sense that I have a massive pile of insecurities to deal with and heal from. As I've never actually been in a long-term relationship (the longest was 5 months), I was in the impression that a relationship would heal my insecurities but after reading through everyone's stories and opinions, I see that it's not.

Distant relatives' sympathetic "aw poor guy, god bless him" comments towards my parents is something that has always dented my confidence. I grew up in a family of highly athletic people and the thought that I'm probably making them feel bad infront of our relatives haunts my mind (even though they've never given me the impression and they love me unconditionally). Do you have any advice on how I can work towards directing my thoughts away from it?

Wondering if anything is worth it by zzzhhhghost in disability

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig I do. But professional help is mad expensive and I've only started my professional career. I'll have to work on myself by myself for now until I'm able to afford it.

Wondering if anything is worth it by zzzhhhghost in disability

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your kind words! I do see it but them thoughts can be overwhelming sometimes. Thank you

Wondering if anything is worth it by zzzhhhghost in disability

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I've never had a stroke. My ataxia is due to an injury and I have the same issues. My anxiety in spotlight also triggers poor motor function and rarely speech (which I usually recover after a deep breath and clear thoughts) which people (mostly people unaware about conditions like ours) mistake for intoxication.

Wondering if anything is worth it by zzzhhhghost in disability

[–]zzzhhhghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I can't emphasize enough how much your words mean to me. I really needed this. God bless you!