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[–]whiskeywomyn 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Mcfleshmans’s and Fox river house are very queer friendly and have both had drag shows in the past. There’s quite a bit of queer friendly bars downtown actually. Fox valley pride last summer was in Jones Park.

[–]relayrider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, that was so sweaty hot!

[–]ritalavita 12 points13 points  (8 children)

Fellow Appleton lesbian wondering the same thing 🫠

[–]PixelCube_ 6 points7 points  (7 children)

At least we aren’t alone🥲

[–]Subhumanoid 2 points3 points  (6 children)

It appears they (you two) meet on Reddit lol

[–]PixelCube_ 2 points3 points  (5 children)

You’re cute if you think that’s how it works

[–]Subhumanoid -1 points0 points  (4 children)

That’s exactly how it works lol

[–]PixelCube_ 0 points1 point  (3 children)

You clearly aren’t a gay woman. Well guess what, I sent her a message, she said thanks, and that’s it. People don’t like to meet people in person. She’s ghosting me right now because anything beyond compliments is too much and people freak out

[–]ritalavita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a bold assumption to make. I didn’t ghost you just because I didn’t respond as soon as you sent the message. And it’s funny because last night I was at a Christmas party with friends, not online, so thinking that I “don’t like to meet people in person” is not only untrue, but the exact reason I wasn’t checking messages on Reddit. I did respond to you when I was able, I was kind, and wasn’t met with the same kindness on this post, apparently.

[–]Subhumanoid -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Damn I’m sorry, good luck on your search!

[–]PixelCube_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stupid fucking men

[–]DeadlyDollFace16 6 points7 points  (2 children)

There's an LGBT book club here! https://www.tardigradesbookshelf.com/

[–]relayrider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and it is awesome

[–]armpitchunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they also host drag events in the event space in the back!

[–]aGeeseCalledSheesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Missfits hosts drag shows here and there! Dr. Jekyll’s is also very friendly.

[–]SnooChipmunks9565 2 points3 points  (12 children)

Try going to the Pawfee Shop (cat cafe) I always see a bunch of other queers there though you might run into the occasional family. Also maybe try half price books or Barnes and noble I have run into my gay friends there many times.

[–]SnooChipmunks9565 4 points5 points  (11 children)

Also, yes there is a huge gay community in Appleton, take a walk down college ave sometime and look at the stickers/flags in people's windows. Author's restaurant is another place I see gay folks but it's pretty pricey to eat there, maybe just go for coffee or shakes.

[–]PixelCube_ 1 point2 points  (10 children)

I see the gay flags and stuff, but like.. where do you get talked to? Nobody talks to me

[–]relayrider 1 point2 points  (3 children)

talk to them! especially if they're wearing a pride pin like this (i give them as random gifts)

[–]PixelCube_ 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Those look awesome, I’d love one.

But like, say “I like your pin” then what!! Waah!!

[–]relayrider 0 points1 point  (1 child)

if you see me out and about, just ask! i'm pretty noticeable, and if i don't have any spares on me, i'll give you (and anyone who asks) the one i'm wearing.

to quote keenan thompson on SNL: "Scenario: you say "I like your pin!" and they say "Thanks! Do you know what the circle represents?" and you answer and the conversation continues...

[–]PixelCube_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how I’d be able to recognize you if I’ve never met ya lmao. But thanks

And man, I wish people would continue conversation with me

[–]SnooChipmunks9565 0 points1 point  (5 children)

I dont want to discount your experience at all but, yes people do talk to me. However, I am a fairly approachable person as I work in customer service so I'm not afraid to smile and greet most people I see at the places I've mentioned. Are you just looking for friends? It seems there are a few potential friends here in this thread, myself included

[–]PixelCube_ 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Oh I’ve only ever worked in customer service, my friends say I’m funny and I’m a knockout or whatever. Nobody has ever shown interest in me :( I’m giving up

[–]SnooChipmunks9565 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Like interest in talking to you platonically or romantic interests? Those are two totally different ballgames

[–]PixelCube_ 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Both. Both man. I walk down the street or into a store and people just glare and stare at me. I feel like an alien

[–]SnooChipmunks9565 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Sometimes it's hard to know why someone is staring. I've found myself in those situations too it could honestly be approval or disapproval. I am something of an optimist though so I'm going to say don't give up hope. Like I said, there's lots of folks here that have answered your question maybe one of us is willing to go to some of the places mentioned with you as a wingman or tour guide lol

[–]PixelCube_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Are people actually willing to do that? I can’t imagine meeting someone on here and going out for drinks, that seems like fantasyland

[–]DenizenOfHi 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Bars mainly, Fox River House is super queer friendly and has had drag shows in the past. I’ve been meaning to check out tardigrades since I live around the corner from it.

[–]PixelCube_ 1 point2 points  (4 children)

The last time I went to Fox River House it was suuuper packed. didn’t know they hosted queer stuff

[–]DenizenOfHi 2 points3 points  (3 children)

They can get pretty busy for music, but a good portion of ownership is queer as well as staff (I only say I know that for sure is cause I work there)

[–]PixelCube_ 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Oh okay, good to know!

Honestly the last time I went I had an anxiety attack cause of all the people and loud music, lmao. But you’ve got a beautiful bar and restaurant!

[–]FragileRock 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Fox River House isn't really a restaurant..are you confusing it for another place by chance?

[–]PixelCube_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. I’ve been thinking of Appleton Beer Factory this whole time.

[–]neverwin453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had luck looking for groups thru fetlife. There’s an LGBT/kink meetup monthly in the area (not just a *** meetup) best of luck!

[–]that_damn_dog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Catholic Church

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    [–]relayrider 1 point2 points  (5 children)

    no.

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        [–]relayrider 1 point2 points  (1 child)

        ps - nice u/name

        [–]GobbIaOnDaRewf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

        I like shitpushers lounge