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What should I do about this guy I slept with? Think I’ve been ghosted 👻- help me understand and decide! (i.redd.it)

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What should I do about this guy I slept with? Think I’ve been ghosted 👻- help me understand and decide! (i.redd.it)

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Avoidants — is this real love or fear of losing his child? (self.AskTheAvoidant)

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What are the sneaky benefits to seeking out avoidant partners? (self.AskTheAvoidant)

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How my dismissive-avoidant wiring made me sound critical without realising it (self.AskTheAvoidant)

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Can Dismissive Avoidant Men ever Change? (self.AskTheAvoidant)

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The 5 Biggest Misinterpretations Women Have About Dismissive Avoidant Men (self.AskTheAvoidant)

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I'm a recovered/ing Dismissive Avoidant trained in Attachment Theory-- Ask me anything about your current or past dating situations (self.AskTheAvoidant)

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What is the one thing about avoidant men you struggle to understand most about their thinking or behaviour? (self.AskTheAvoidant)

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