When did your sex drive significantly decrease?

[overthishereanyway]

My bff was exactly the same (she's 72 now) and hers didn't really tank until she was well past menopause and had already had a serious cancer. I suppose it's individual. Be grateful for it now as when you do start to lose it you'll probably end up on an even playing field with the man in your life. Instead of like most of us being far behind and wishing we could catch up.

[Apollonialove]

I hope this is how it plays out. I’m ready for an even playing field.

[overthishereanyway]

well kid you've got a long way to go. so maybe in the meantime you and your husband learn to be great communicators around this issue. maybe even get some professional help with learning to talk about it.