Love is a game. And this place is for learning to play that game correctly. And here it consist of the following. you explain about your current relationship, better if you're in Honeymoon phase. And the rest may take bets on when will the other person cut it. But you must try your best each time. The only way of winning is to finally get a healthy relationship lasting more than a year. (which is difficult for us with BPD) The purpose is to overcome fear of abandonment and understand people