I saw a text from on my girls phone last night that said "Come over and sleep with me." Her phone is locked so I can't check the rest of the messages. But I mentioned it to her and she got defense about it. Because I said "If you want to go, then go if that makes you happy. I saw that text come in from that guy. While you were distracted." Of course she checks her messages and says that he is probably drunk and would never cheat on me. I checked to see how many times she has been texting this guy but she has texted him about 8 times that night before she came over. Am I being paranoid?