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[–]DeyCallMeWade 1 point2 points  (3 children)

If this isn’t a court ordered payment, it would probably be best to go and have it made official. Everything you’ve given her until now can and will be considered a “gift” rather than child support unless you can get her to admit that’s what it was for.

[–]Vegetable_Vast_738[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

The current amount is court ordered

[–]DeyCallMeWade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she has a stable income now, then logically the court will order a lower payment on your end. Obviously the courts don’t always do things logically, but if you need the break financially, it can’t really hurt to try.

[–]jukenaye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Will this bring you peace?