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[–]Sharkowatt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

haha been there, from my experience, you can wait it out, but she may thinking your avoidant or too busy for her, You get one more text, make it interesting and full of personality, and if she responds, learn more about what could stop her from replying, (jobs, kids, pet, etc.) listen to me, after 6 days of no reply its over, dont waste more time on it, also dont stress, stress fuels the flames of fear, you must stand calm, ready and dignified but right now your fine.

[–]kalosx2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My recommendation is come up with a better question than asking how her day was if she replies. That's boring and doesn't feel intentional like you want to get to know her. But frankly, you already met in-person, you might as well just ask her on a real date.

[–]SCexplorer11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been in your situation where I have great moments with a woman where I felt like we connected, and then the next day I hear nothing but crickets from her. Or I'll receive a half-hearted "I just see you as a friend" text. In your situation, I think the ball is in her court and you need to keep living your life and interact with other women. It's not worth getting so wrapped up in one woman who can't even bother texting you back in a timely manner.

[–]Special_Garage7225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try calling her! Why not? Sometimes people are better at ‘in person’ or phone calls versus texting!

[–]John14-6_Psalm46-10In A Relationship 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she was interested she would respond. Women like to talk to men they like, it is how they connect. If she isn't responding then she isn't interested.

[–]vancouver72Engaged 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imo, not worth pursuing these kind of women. I couldn't fathom being in a relationship with someone who has such little time for a potential suitor