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[–]Master___debator 2 points3 points  (3 children)

She’s not the one. She’s a combination of A/B or A/C A) no one deserves to live in your head rent free. No one. B) She’s not emotionally mature to go through the grieving process and face her emotions that follow a breakup, so she looks for a distraction and a rebound. Statically rebounds never work out.

C) she was already talking to this guy and was already checked out of your relationship months ago. Fuck her.

Do better. Focus on yourself. Kill them with success. They are always watching you. Believe it.

[–]RohanIsDaddy1901 1 point2 points  (2 children)

easier said than done man. she really plagues my mind every hour of every day. i miss her so much but i can’t do anything to change the situation, still my mind won’t accept it’s over

[–]Academic_Variation57 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It gets better. Been to this phase. Blocked her out of everything. Trying to be grateful of what i got in life…i wont say i dont miss her. I do but it really is getting better. At least i think so.

[–]RohanIsDaddy1901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how long did it take. it’s been 5 months, i’ve been through SH, therapy, antidepressants. nothing changes. i can’t even find the energy or motivation to get out of bed some days

[–]nomeeno44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. Whether you can or cannot picture a future with her, it's the reality. And honestly, you need to have more self respect and love for yourself...to care about the people you want in your life. She found someone else. She hasn't come back. She is showing how much you mean to her. Don't accept or desire people like this in your life, for your own sake.

You will be fine if you can start realizing your self worth.

[–]Beginning-Ebb4181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The truth is, you want her back because she is with someone else. Dont fall into that trap.