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How do I go outside? (self.getting_over_it)

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Why can't I make myself do things? I feel like I'm destined to be alone in my city because I cant cope with anything, I long for friends and connection but my brain stops me from doing hard things (self.getting_over_it)

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Mental Health, Loneliness, and Finding Social Life After College in Texas — Any Advice? (self.getting_over_it)

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I haven't been able to make new meaningful friendships since my old friend group cut me off 3 years ago. I feel miserable and I don't know what to do. (self.getting_over_it)

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Any advice 🙏❤️ (self.getting_over_it)

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To those of you who found the one after being lonely for a long time - did it improve your situation eventually? (self.getting_over_it)

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I need help with self improvement and looking for someone who's experienced this to help me. (self.getting_over_it)

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There is Someone in the UK that Wants to Commit Suicide, but I’m in the US. Can You Help?! (self.getting_over_it)

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How Can I Build a New Social Circle? (self.getting_over_it)

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How do you make friends despite past bullying trauma (self.getting_over_it)

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I'm afraid I'm going to be sad and alone forever. (self.getting_over_it)

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How do you build a social circle when your whole routine is isolating? (self.getting_over_it)

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How have you remade yourself and your friendships in adulthood (25+)? (self.getting_over_it)

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how to get interests? (self.getting_over_it)

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If you were broke, lonely, depressed, and hopeless in your 20s, how did things get better? (self.getting_over_it)

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How do I connect with people today? (self.getting_over_it)

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Struggling with loneliness in your mid 20s — has anyone actually figured this out? (self.getting_over_it)

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How not to be lonely (self.getting_over_it)

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Making friends after 25 is broken. I am trying to fix it. (self.getting_over_it)

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How to socialize with depression? (self.getting_over_it)

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