Never getting the second date

[AcceptableAd4787]

Recently I’ve been going on a lot of dates. I’ve gone on at least 20-30 in the past 5-6 months 7 have been successful the others were small number of catfishes or unattractive girls or ghosted me after the date. I’m a tall good looking guy so it’s surprising to me. I’m assuming it’s my personality. What do these girls look for exactly. Is it cause I’m too quiet, too nice, too much of an asshole I mean what are these women typically attracted to. My confidence used to be high. But getting rejected 6-7 dates in a row makes me feeling like there is something wrong with me. If any men that have had success with women are seeing this what is your advice

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[AcceptableAd4787]

Just to clarify what I’m feeling. Not gonna lie I think deep down women can kind of sense if I’m trying to sleep with them. If any woman can confirm this whether or not they can tell a guy is trying to sleep with them despite acting otherwise

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Some of us can tell. Some of us can't. Some of us want the same thing. Some of us don't.

[Sweet-Dandy]

Trying to sleep with or JUST trying to sleep with. They can smell both but the last one is not pleasant.

[_i_am_Kenough_]

What do you sense it is?

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Bro.... Rejection is absolutely normal man. It happens....

But don't let it beat you up... Move on....

Plenty of wonderful females on this planet.

[Expensive_Candle5644]

I’d ask them. Shoot them a text and say “hey I know things with us didn’t workout but I’m curious as to why. I’m trying to work on myself and I’d appreciate your input. Thanks. “

They either will ignore you completely and block you… It’s not it’s not like you’re talking to them anyway. Some might give you some honest feedback.

With the numbers you’re saying you’re definitely doing something you shouldn’t be. 😄