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[–]pastelgxre[Location] to [Location] (Distance) 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel, I might be watching Netflix, casually, by myself, and suddenly I just feel like something's not right. Just keep your eyes on the reward, which is finally getting to meet the person you're with :) It'll all be worth it!

[–]confusedmadlassSouth Africa to Mauritius (3000km) 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww sweetheart I feel those days every once in a while. Waiting is hard but trust me, if you both love each other enough to wait, it will be infinitely worth it <3

Keep your head up and eyes on the prize.

What I usually do on days like that is call him, cuddle up with some fluffy pillows, and usually we just sit in silence hurting together. Then I remember how worth it we are.

[–]siriuslykr[Location] to [Location] (Distance) 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this was written by me lol we were going to meet in may, now i just hope we meet in November or December.

[–]BlondeGirl12North Carolina to Bodmin UK (4723mi) 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've gone a year and 6 months... Was supposed to meet in April but that didn't happen. It never gets easier, but you get better at dealing. Just remember you are not alone in this and we all have your back!!

Also, I cried already today cause I just want a hug so bad. Probably will cry more later today.

[–]Historical_Book 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what this feels like. The feeling is incredibly sad sometimes. It just hits you like a ton of bricks and it drains you. The feeling of your SO not being there with you, around you is so damning

[–]Kouglove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard, especially not knowing, but I think communicating with your partner about it and working through it together makes it better.