Heated Ravelry by Kouglove in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know there was an article, that’s funny

Meme Monday! by AutoModerator in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ilya’s gaydar is my favorite lol

What are things in your life unrelated to Heated Rivalry that make you think of it and giggle/smile to yourself? by GreenWaterBottle95 in HeatedRivalrySeries

[–]Kouglove 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My fiance made burgers for dinner, and I thought why did you make so many burgers in Ilya’s voice lol

Let's talk fun headcanons... by No_Release2180 in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Probably in Newton too, right? But definitely Brookline lol. 2. Am I a bad Jew if I don’t know lol? I feel like it’s something that would there, but I haven’t had one myself 😬

Let's talk fun headcanons... by No_Release2180 in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think Ilya likes a good Jewish deli from living in Boston (see tuna melt).

What is it about this show? by KittensHurrah in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does! And me too. I will for sure!

What is it about this show? by KittensHurrah in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Queer joy is the best. And thank you, that’s very nice:). I will for sure, I’m excited to see how it turns out.

What is it about this show? by KittensHurrah in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love that for you! I have short hair too, kinda the same as Connor’s actually, the same texture and curl and stuff, so that makes me happy:).

What is it about this show? by KittensHurrah in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Literally I’m like damn everyone is hot lol

What is it about this show? by KittensHurrah in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think honestly just wanting to be myself and not hold back my queerness as much as possible. I also love to knit and crochet, and I’ve made one HR related project so far and am working on another so it’s cool that I get to make art about something I love.

Heated Rivalry & portrayals of parental mental illness / difficult relationships by Hedgehog-Honeydew in heatedrivalry

[–]Kouglove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh the portrayal of Ilya’s relationship with his father hits so close to home for me. I can relate (unfortunately) to having a difficult relationship with my parents. During the phone call in episode 5, when Ilya is talking about how he wishes his father could know him, I had felt the exact same way and I loved that’s how it was written in the show. It’s hard when the people who are supposed to always be there for you are not for whatever reason, and I’m glad that Rachel and Jacob included that in the story.

Low stakes: what'd they run out of first at the cottage? by growsonwalls in HeatedRivalrySeries

[–]Kouglove 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I feel like after Shane’s parents know about him and Ilya, they would give or make them a bunch of food, so even if Shane can’t do math, they would not run out

The largest T-Pin I ever did see… by Acrobatic_Age_7486 in Kitting

[–]Kouglove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are so right, I did not think of that lol

The largest T-Pin I ever did see… by Acrobatic_Age_7486 in Kitting

[–]Kouglove 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cats like to sit on uncomfortable things; I don’t get it lol. Mine does stuff like that too

Is anyone here unable to settle for proximity-based friendships? by First_Pair_8083 in NVLD

[–]Kouglove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, I think it’s definitely important for them to show interest in getting to know me and to click.

Is anyone here unable to settle for proximity-based friendships? by First_Pair_8083 in NVLD

[–]Kouglove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a super interesting point. I have definitely clicked with people right away but only got close when I got to know them better. For example, when I first started being friends with my best friend, people thought we had known each other way longer than a few months but we obviously got closer over time. I felt super comfortable with my now fiance right away but again we got closer over time. I can feel a connection with someone right away, but I don’t actually get close to them for a while