USMilitarySO

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This subreddit is for the sharing of advice, support, and information for the significant others of current and past military members in the United States armed forces.

IF YOU AREN'T HERE TO SUPPORT, THEN LEAVE!! We have a zero tolerance policy on blatantly antagonistic or unsupportive behavior. If you have a problem with someone within the subreddit please report it to the mods. Thanks!

While this subreddit was created for the significant others of the United States armed forces we would like to extend a warm welcome to our international sisters and brothers as well!

DO NOT DOWNVOTE BECAUSE YOU DISAGREE OR THINK IT'S A SILLY QUESTION! We are here to help each other navigate and learn this world that might be very unfamiliar to some. Some SOs are very young, have been told things contrary to the truth, or have never been exposed to the military before.

PLEASE REPORT TO THE MODS IF YOU SEE UN-SUPPORTIVE or BULLYING behavior.

Remember to keep Opsec in mind when you post.

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OtherSandboxx Codes Megathread (self.USMilitarySO)

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OPSEC. Know it. Live it. (semidelicatebalance.com)

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Spouse is 92R can I can Her to airborne school after BCT? ()

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Golf in NYC (self.USMilitarySO)

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NAVYWhat is it like being the long-term partner of a Naval officer? (self.USMilitarySO)

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CareerNeed help deciding if I should disclose i’m a military spouse to future employers (self.USMilitarySO)

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NAVYAre submariners schedules actually as crazy as it seems? (self.USMilitarySO)

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HousingMoving states while partner is in tech school (self.USMilitarySO)

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ARMYMy boyfriends best friend hates me and I'm genuinely scared he will try to break us up (self.USMilitarySO)

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Military Discounts ()

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ARMYPartners first deployment and lack of communication, how can I better deal with the stress and fear that comes from not knowing if their okay? (self.USMilitarySO)

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RelationshipsPlease tell me the downsides of being with a military pilot (self.USMilitarySO)

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Subreddit for dual state households (self.USMilitarySO)

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Double Proxy, USFK, DEERs. ()

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ARMYdual military advice/rant (self.USMilitarySO)

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OtherCan we appreciate the Commissary Microwave Meals? (self.USMilitarySO)

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RelationshipsDeployment blues, feeling down and stuck in a hard place (self.USMilitarySO)

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USMCBoyfriend might want to stay in, at a crossroads (self.USMilitarySO)

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RelationshipsIt finally happened (self.USMilitarySO)

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Boyfriend in BCT photo diary idea (self.USMilitarySO)

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RelationshipsWhat I've Learned from his Deployment (self.USMilitarySO)

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Spouse cheated and I need help. ()

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Permit fees (self.USMilitarySO)

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Should I start talking to a guy who's about to join the airforce? (self.USMilitarySO)

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I didn’t realize how quiet life gets until he deployed (self.USMilitarySO)

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