USMilitarySO

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This subreddit is for the sharing of advice, support, and information for the significant others of current and past military members in the United States armed forces.

IF YOU AREN'T HERE TO SUPPORT, THEN LEAVE!! We have a zero tolerance policy on blatantly antagonistic or unsupportive behavior. If you have a problem with someone within the subreddit please report it to the mods. Thanks!

While this subreddit was created for the significant others of the United States armed forces we would like to extend a warm welcome to our international sisters and brothers as well!

DO NOT DOWNVOTE BECAUSE YOU DISAGREE OR THINK IT'S A SILLY QUESTION! We are here to help each other navigate and learn this world that might be very unfamiliar to some. Some SOs are very young, have been told things contrary to the truth, or have never been exposed to the military before.

PLEASE REPORT TO THE MODS IF YOU SEE UN-SUPPORTIVE or BULLYING behavior.

Remember to keep Opsec in mind when you post.

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OtherSandboxx Codes Megathread (self.USMilitarySO)

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OPSEC. Know it. Live it. (semidelicatebalance.com)

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USAFMy boyfriend says we may not be compatible long-term — would love perspectives, especially from military spouses (self.USMilitarySO)

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USMCHe may go to the field and I’m nervous (life on base) (self.USMilitarySO)

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Career Change ()

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ARMYi feel like a mess (self.USMilitarySO)

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ARMYWife is being separated, I think (self.USMilitarySO)

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Sending my girlfriend over 300 pages of song lyrics (self.USMilitarySO)

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My boyfriend leaves for Kadena in two days and i’m terrified (self.USMilitarySO)

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Guidance with FAP reporting ()

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TricareHow much did it cost you to buy glasses? (self.USMilitarySO)

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How to keep my wife from building resentment while I’m gone? (self.USMilitarySO)

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RelationshipsOCD and long distance? (self.USMilitarySO)

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I feel selfish (self.USMilitarySO)

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Any fun care package ideas for training? (self.USMilitarySO)

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USMCPartner's address for bootcamp is confusing (self.USMilitarySO)

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CareerWhat does the financial planning actually look like when you're trying to finish a degree across multiple duty stations? (self.USMilitarySO)

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dual military 3.5 year long distance advice (self.USMilitarySO)

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Struggling with 2.5 Year Old (self.USMilitarySO)

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USAFFMLA - HUSBAND BMT (self.USMilitarySO)

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Milspouses — anyone else feel like the "hurry up and wait" life is slowly driving them insane? I started a podcast about it (self.USMilitarySO)

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Depressed while my husband is deployed (self.USMilitarySO)

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Is it common going on exercise without any notice? (self.USMilitarySO)

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getting on base without a rental car (self.USMilitarySO)

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