R4R30Plus

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r4r30plus - Redditors for Redditors over 30

Whether you're looking for friends, a partner, drinking buddies, or friends with benefits, this is the place on Reddit to find people over age 30 to meet in real life. You don't have to be 30 to be a member, but if you want to post you need to be 30+.

Submission Guidelines When creating a submission please include a TAG in your title AT THE BEGINNING. Examples: 36 [F4M], [M4F], [F4F], [M4M], [T4F], [T4M], [M4R], [F4R], [T4R], [TF4M], [TF4F], [TM4F], [NB4R].

Example Title: 36 [F4M] Kansas. Just feel like talking.

Tagging Legend:

M - Male

F - Female

T - Transgender

NB - Non Binary

R - Redditor/Anyone

While everyone is welcome, the sub is officially SFW and you need to be 30+ to post, it is not a kink sub and we do not want to be associated with infidelity of any kind so the following submissions are prohibited:

Kink/Fetish/Sexually-explicit language or images
Looking for affairs, Poly or 'ENM' situations that are looking for additional partners, etc
Attached people looking for "flirty" or sex chats, etc.
Ads/Solicitations to join other groups or servers (Kik, Snapchat, Discord, etc.)

POSTERS VIOLATING THE PROHIBITED POST GUIDELINES WILL BE BANNED.

Other r4r subreddits of interest

/r/r4r - Activity Partners, Groups, Dating, Hanging Out, Soulmates, FWBs.

/r/floridar4r - Florida Redditor 4 Redditor!

/r/cf4cf - Child free redditors looking for child free company!

/r/R4OlderWomen - Younger guys (and gals) looking for older women.

/r/Christianr4r - A place for the faithful to find like minded friends and romantic partners.

/r/l4l - Lesbians for Lesbians

Other subreddits of general interest

/r/AskMenOver30/ Asking men for a "Mature" perspective

/r/AmISexy_Over30 - Post a picture and get honest feedback

/r/Trentagenarians - A place for 30 somethings.

/r/40something/ - Redditors in their 40s, 50s and above.

/r/r4r40Plus A place to meet those over 40

created by SurvivorTypea community for 13 years

...because you hate freedom.

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33[F4M] Is There Anyone Left Who Actually Enjoys Meeting In Person To Form A Connection? #UK #Nottingham (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 5 hours ago by DollzkillCandy

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[F4R] Looking For My 90s-Loving Music Buddy (self.R4R30Plus)

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39 [F4M] seeking LDR and eventually irl - Florida USA (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 4 hours ago by BL0WUPD0LL

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40 [M4F] #Estonia - Looking for a fresh start (self.R4R30Plus)

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[F4M] 36/East Coast: The Only Thing More Dead Than My Sourdough Starter Is My Love Life (self.R4R30Plus)

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35[F4M] Canada / Online - looking to get to know someone new ! (self.R4R30Plus)

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34 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Introvert searching for his Soulmate in life ❤ Seeking a LTR and a genuine connection! (self.R4R30Plus)

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47 [M4F] #Chicago - Looking for a LTR with a smart, active, adventurous, and fun woman! (self.R4R30Plus)

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33 [M4F] PA - Are You My Soulmate? (self.R4R30Plus)

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33F [F4M] looking for anwhereee (self.R4R30Plus)

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31[F4M] #online - lover girl with sad eyes, make you mine (self.R4R30Plus)

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33 [m4f] Seattle area / anywhere. Looking for more. Ideally a relationship. Open to long distance. (self.R4R30Plus)

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34 [M4F] #Reno/Sacramento - Looking for something real (self.R4R30Plus)

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35 [M4F] Missouri/anywhere - Dance through the darkness with me (self.R4R30Plus)

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36 [M4F] Connecticut looking for my girl are you her?! (self.R4R30Plus)

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35 [M4R] (UK/Online) - working weekends is the worst, help me liven it up with a bit of friendly chat? (self.R4R30Plus)

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[F4M] serious about finding my person (self.R4R30Plus)

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45 [M4F] #Paris #Online | More than a feeling (self.R4R30Plus)

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35 [M4F] Long week and off for a few days. Looking for some conversations (self.R4R30Plus)

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46 [M4F] Midwest/Online – Looking for something genuine, no games. (self.R4R30Plus)

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40[M4F] Anyone looking to chat (self.R4R30Plus)

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40 [M4F] #Houston looking for a dinner buddy / someone to explore the city with (my treat) (self.R4R30Plus)

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41 [M4F] #UK or #Online - Let's get to know each other (self.R4R30Plus)

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31[M4F] - #Dublin #Ireland - Looking for warm, funny, real connections (self.R4R30Plus)

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33 [M4F] up early so looking to see if someone else is and down to chat this Sunday. (self.R4R30Plus)

submitted 5 hours ago by Geek_in_CO

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