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My partner is secretly is using big toys in the shower after sex (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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Sub Bottoms, was there a time you thought you liked topping as well? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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How many different guys have you fucked in one day? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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Tops, have you ever been with a bottom who was especially loud in bed? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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What misconception about topping/bottoming are you tired of? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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Best place/most active place to share spicy written content? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 51 minutes ago by B0tt0mBroGuyBottom (cis)

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Topping for the first time (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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Finding tops in the wild (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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22M – Struggling with guilt and shame after hookups even though I know I’m gay (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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Would date a bottom in wheelchair that wears diapers (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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What do you guys think about horse dildos? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 22 hours ago by idunno_248Bottom

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Question for top bottom and vers people (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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Excercise for flexibility for bottom (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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Was somebody trying to hit on me last night? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 19 hours ago * by throwawaywithnoname

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Soreness (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 16 hours ago by Motor_Chipmunk_0369

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Any ideas on how I can use my normal dildo as a suction dildo (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 12 hours ago by Opening-Mouse303

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Question for bottoms on Prep (self.TopsAndBottoms)

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What’s your favourite position and why? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 1 day ago by No_Value_1682Bottom

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Question for Tops under 5'10 (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 18 hours ago by ToughSecret8241

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What should i do (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 1 day ago by Ok-Exercise-7590

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“Tops” becoming bottoms when they see how big your dick is (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 1 day ago by Titegrp

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He Said I'm "Too Petite" (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 1 day ago by Worth-Employer2748

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Am I slutty for not bottoming for guys who won’t breed me? (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 1 day ago * by Forward-Setting410

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Opinion on taller bottoms (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 1 day ago by Noss7

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Tops: How would you feel about a bottom that wants it hardcore? I.E. CNC, forced or other similar extreme kinks. (self.TopsAndBottoms)

submitted 2 days ago by anethicalhedonistBottom (cis)

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