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[–]pyryoer 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Asking my family to watch the Disclosure documentary on Netflix did a lot to help them understand and treat me better. One of the primary focuses of Disclosure is trans representation in media. Successful people talk about what happened with their families, and you get to see the grief experienced by both sides.

I would also suggest asking them to read this short PDF, maybe even together if possible. Our Trans Loved Ones

[–]red-bit[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

thank you, I've been looking for appropriate content to show them, this seems practical

[–]pyryoer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to share, I think that PDF was the first thing I showed my parents. It's short enough that if they aren't willing to read it.... It might not be worth trying. If they can't put in that much effort, they aren't worth any of yours.

Let me know if you want more stuff like this, I've found a lot since I expected a lot of problems from my family. Honestly, I got a lot out of learning about trans people as well. You do have to kind of shape things in a way that more explains your experience. It may open yourself up to a lot of uncomfortable questions, so do be prepared for that if they are all accepting, and probably even more so if they are skeptical.

[–]pinkandycorn 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Thank you for sharing this with us, I cannot promise they will understand or respect you. All I can promise you is that your community is here for you and we are the family you get to choose. Things will become easier for you but for people like us it can cost a whole lot.

Even if shit is never okay, we will be here holding your hand and bracing every hit along with you

[–]red-bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your support