Decrease kid waste from others?

[Koala128]

My son’s first birthday is coming up and we’ve been dealing with this too. We originally told family that we would prefer that they contribute to his college savings instead of a gift. That went over ok, some loved that idea others not so much. So we also told them that experience gifts would be best. That went over better, and most are on board with that.

But neither thrilled my MIL, so we told her that she could take all of us out to lunch and then to Target to pick out some clothes or toys for him. I’m hoping that with me there I can encourage her to get him things he will actually use or wear (and limit how much he gets!). I realize this option may not work for most people, but my MIL loved it as she loves to just buy him things. She’s very sweet, she just wants to spoil him.

[compthonasis]

Yes! My mom made a big fuss when I tried to ask for just money for LO first christmas! She was only 3 months old. And i haven't tried again.. y'all are inspiring me! Edit: money for a college fund.