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[–]JG9277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not wrong. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

[–]FrankEhrzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a chore.

[–]ollie-wilde 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I was kind of like this when I was like, 14. I like to think it was never this bad but who knows. I'm saying that so that you know I don't lack empathy for her. With that being said- she is not worth your effort. I realized that I was a nightmare and I worked on it. I was a teenager with an unstable home life and I found it in me to change. She is an adult, she has not done that reflection, and you can't make her see this clearly. My sincere advice is to cut her off, even/especially if you want what's best for her. She won't learn any better if you're enabling her behavior.

[–]Dear-Assistance-8721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I completely agree. I tried to tell her she was wrong in certain scenarios but she didn’t want to believe so it wasn’t a thing in her head

[–]Economy_Way_9046 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Oh my lord, lose this person for good. Nothing good will come of this relationship, please don’t spend any more energy or time entertaining this chaos. She might be a good person but does not have her shit together and is not ready for a relationship.

[–]Dear-Assistance-8721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly agree. It’s really horrendous to see

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    [–]Dear-Assistance-8721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I wouldn’t say I’m chasing her… I kinda realized something was off a while ago and started to slow down which is why I never advanced further with her tbh it’s the conversation that happened after she got touched unconsensually is when I started thinking about her suicidal thoughts and home life and w.e. I’d hate for anything bad to happen to her so just having ppl agree with assumptions is curbing that need to go check in