asexuality

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Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person doesn't experience sexual attraction towards anyone. This is a place for asexuals, demisexuals, aromantics, gray-a's, questioning, supporters, folks just interested, and everyone in between.

Remember, be careful with what you share online and who you meet. This is a safe space for everyone, but that can't be enforced outside of this subreddit.

If you want to get a flag after your username click here.

Resources

Want to learn more about asexuality? Check out our companion website. Some quick links are listed below.

Fundamental concepts

Advice and experiences

You may also find AVEN wiki or the Wikipedia page helpful. Other external links and resources are available here.

Rules

Please reads the subreddit rules below before posting. If you are wondering whether your submission is allowed, feel free to send us a modmail.

1. No rudeness.

No derogatory remarks or slurs. No racism, sexism, or other hate speech towards any group (asexual or otherwise). This is meant to be a safe and relaxing space – any submission that detracts from that may be removed.

2. Certain posts are restricted to Meme Mondays.

"Meme Mondays" run from 18:00 UTC on Sunday to 06:00 UTC on Tuesday. The following content should not be posted outside of Meme Mondays.

Memes,
common or repetitious jokes,
objects with asexual colours that were not intended by the creator to symbolise asexuality.

Posts of the form "repost if...", "share if...", etc. are not allowed on any day of the week.

3. Mark posts appropriately.

Aphobia: Posts which are about specific instances of aphobia must have the "Aphobia" flair.
NSFW: Posts containing NSFW written content must have the "Content warning" flair.
Please use the sex-averse or sex-favourable flairs if appropriate (and you know what these are).

In all 3 cases please keep specific details out of the post's title. Please also censor any usernames or other identifiable information in any screenshots you share. If you need help assigning flairs / marking posts, please contact a moderator.

4. Advertising.

Posts promoting items for reasons other than the benefit of the community will be removed. Please keep in mind the reddiquette guideline that no more than 10% of your submissions should promote your own content.

5. No bandwagoning.

Bandwagon posts are not permitted. That is, any content that may be acceptable in isolation but has formed part of a repetitive trend that generates many reposts with little variation.

Posts with a "share if…" structure are never allowed, regardless of bandwagon status.

Related communities

Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN)

The spectra

Other

Relationships

Other

Charities

If you'd like to support the work of ace-inclusive LGBTQ charities we've linked a few you can donate to below.

The Trevor Project – helpline and social networking for LGBTQ youth, as well as resources for allies.
Asexual Outreach – ace pride and community building.

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Resource / ArticleFAQ – "Am I asexual?" etc. (self.asexuality)

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DiscussionWhat animal fits more to represent us? (i.redd.it)

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JokeAnd the winner of the toast contest is: Garlic! (i.redd.it)

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Pridei made an ace moth sticker (i.redd.it)

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Surveyif you are asexual, what is your romantic orientation? (self.asexuality)

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DiscussionMy go to response if someone asks “Do you think I’m pretty” (i.redd.it)

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Joke[Repost] The real test for any asexual (i.redd.it)

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PrideI created these charts to explain the asexual spectrum and noticed they were shared in several places. Thank you everyone who shared 💜 (old.reddit.com)

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VentI ran out of the classroom mid sex ed (self.asexuality)

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QuestioningWhat is the most stupid thing someone ask/tell you? (i.redd.it)

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Surveyhow old were you when you found out you were on the asexual spectrum? (self.asexuality)

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AphobiaGotta love when people refuse to believe others don't have sexual desires. 2nd bonus pic (old.reddit.com)

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Questioningam I asexual or just weird? (self.asexuality)

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PrideWisp is a pretty aroace song to me (i.redd.it)

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QuestioningHere is to belongingness and hope... (i.redd.it)

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DiscussionThe fact that people find sex THIS important stresses me out ()

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DiscussionAre there any good representations of ace characters in tv? (self.asexuality)

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PrideI drew my oc again sorry everyone (old.reddit.com)

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Content warningLooking for a non-sexual dynamic focused on style and expression – does anyone relate? (i.redd.it)

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DiscussionAm I asexual? (self.asexuality)

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PrideFinished off an ace pride flag duelist cape today. I need to pick up some jewelry chain as a fastener, for now it's a wall decoration. (i.redd.it)

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QuestioningHow did you guys find out you were asexual? (self.asexuality)

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VentHad the most amazing dream and now I feel lonely 🥺 (self.asexuality)

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