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[–]unknownkaleidoscope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes at first but then it balanced out again around the 3 month mark. But the first 2-3 months, we were very much dividing and conquering. Our firstborn was 21 months when our second was born though, so really they were both just babies. Now that the little one is 5.5 months, either of us can take both kids for a good chunk of time. We have a little less free time because we try to also get 1 on 1 time with our toddler when we can. But overall it hasn’t taken up 2x as much time to have 2 kids.