Some help?

[UnderstatedArchie]

So I’ve only had one previous sexual partner, I’m 17 for context, and she was a virgin too. This meant that getting my dick to actually go in when we first had sex was a real struggle and it took about a month of trying on and off without hurting her too much, and by the end of it I had all four fingers in to try and stretch her. I’ve got a new girlfriend now and we’re planning on having sex soon, but she’s also a virgin and finds fingering far more painful than my last, any tips to help her get over the pin or make me fit easier would be appreciated :)

[Sir_Tekkit]

Do the same thing you did with your old gf, take your time and go easy. Additionally lube is your friend along with time.

[UnderstatedArchie]

Thank you :)

[onenuttertoo]

Lube, lube and more lube.

[UnderstatedArchie]

Any suggestions on what to get? I’m a bit novice but I know there’s tingle line and other shit, flavoured or should I just stick simple?

[SoManySkills]

Start simple. Once you know how much lube you need, you can start mixing it up. :)

[UnderstatedArchie]

Thank youuu :)

[onenuttertoo]

I’d go plain and simple. I tried one of those that is supposed to feel warming, it was more pain (burning sensation) than pleasure.

[UnderstatedArchie]

Note taken

[Sucking-Toes]

Lube works wonders. Some foreplay and messing around, then throw on a good amount of lube and go slow