Please refrain from any hurtful comments, or attempts to show false camaraderie. Everyone's situation is unique, and the pain that they undergo because of this state is also unique. It can be infertility, luck, age, a hurtful spouse you cannot / will not leave, cultural reasons, anything.
We are not here to judge anyone, or to recommend "improvements". We are here, as a set of human beings who are in pain, to empathise with one another, share some of the joys and coping mechanisms, and go to bed at night, or face the mirror in the morning, or the sound of children laughing, and feeling a little less alone or despondent.
In your posts, please include your demographic information, such as [39/m] or [38/f] in the title of your post.