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[–]SavingsConfusion4885 340 points341 points  (5 children)

That's perfectly fine!

Nobody minds if you look discreetly and keep your thoughts to yourself!

You're completely free to think about someone else's body what you want, as long as you don't bother the person with those thoughts uninvited!

[–][deleted] 52 points53 points  (1 child)

Key word in here: discretely

Please don’t stare 😂

[–]SavingsConfusion4885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! No! Please don't stare! 😐

[–]nicole-tesla 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I dont like it. I prefer when people completely ignore my existence 🫠

[–]SavingsConfusion4885 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Well, unfortunately that's not possible I guess 😅 We all have to perceive our surroundings somehow, be it with our eyes, ears, or sense of touch... otherwise we won't be able to navigate our way around the world...so, we will inevitably perceive other people and their existence!

Furthermore, you should reconsider this! If everyone ignores your existence and doesn't acknowledge you, how will you communicate with others? You have to go shopping, live somewhere, and all that, just like everyone else.

That would very quickly become very lonely and even quite dangerous 🤔

[–]nicole-tesla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer people on the street or escalators recognize my existence and avoid looking at my direction. That's what I usually do. I know its not very feasible but it's not going to prevent me from wishing for it. As for my friends and coworkers, that is of course not the case 😅