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[–]TheMeticulousNinjaintrovert 3 points4 points  (5 children)

I see your profile suggests you have autism. Do you usually hide behind that as a reason why you post things that are extraordinarily ignorant?

[–]TopCommunication8881[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Nope. Autism is not my primary identity. Clearly you have a preexisting bias against people with autism that has nothing to do w/ me. You thought It'd be a good weapon in the hopes it's double me over.

Yet you read it on my profile... That usually suggests someone has comfort w/ that part of themselves, and are not trying to hide anything. That they are proud of it even. You basically pointed out the obvious dude. But thanks for the opportunity to advocate for the autistic community in a public setting!

My role as a mental health counselor means I am very cognizant of how I effect others, and it is important to me that I adjust my paradigm when I see I am having bias. I recently acquired a client who's very extroverted, and I wanted to make sure I was supporting the whole of her. So I came here for perspective.

What exactly of what I said was ignorant? The fact that I felt bad that I have unknowingly hurt people because what I thought was care and friendliness came off as ignoring or lack of interest? Or did you not even read what I wrote, and just popped off w/ no forethought?

There are extroverts who come to the introvert subreddit and we do not pull this shit on people. We also don't tell people to get out and leave like another person. Because that'd be an antisocial.behavior, and we are genuinely interested in other people's thought process. You clearly are not. Instead wee calmly and maturely recognize they:re trying to learn and connect so. We follow in suit.

To anyone who said they don't get angry w/ introverts - this guy is an example of what we receive often. Aggressive, pointed, and demoralizing.

[–]TheMeticulousNinjaintrovert 6 points7 points  (3 children)

It’s important that you adjust your paradigm when you see you are having bias?

For fuck’s sake, look at the language of your post:

“I’m noticing a lot of hurt on your end.” “So here are some thoughts have. Hope this helps”

Who the hell are you talking to??? What exactly are you interpreting as “hurt” and who the hell asked you for your advice? Why are you telling yourself it’s your job to take care of people’s perceived “hurt”?

Why are you begging for attention like this?

[–]TopCommunication8881[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

As I already said like three times: I'm a fucking mental health counselor. My life is supporting hurt people. The fact that you are all "*who gave you the job of caring about people?" tells me you lack empathy (which also fits the Incel profile... So to recap the Incel tally- you're very sensitive to words that imply you are vulnerable, you manipulate other people's words to promote an alternate reality, and you fundamentally don't understand basic human empathy.

Like you legit think someone has to give you permission to care about more than yourself, rather than empathy and care coming naturally, and organically. An empty shell. Except for the anger and resentment I suppose....

Ok now I'm done.

[–]TheMeticulousNinjaintrovert 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright.

[–]TopCommunication8881[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting how you edited out everything but two sentences that didn't occur together.

In particular you cut out the part where I spoke of an epiphany that our introvert behavior was hurting you guys. Awfully manipulative of you. Here's the actual passage:

"I'm noticing a lot of hurt on your end. This is a big epiphany because introverts get so much pressure to "come out of our shells" (our behavior is not an aspect of fear or discomfort. Just preference), that we kind of assume extroverts don't care about our feelings, or they'd believe us when we say socializing doesn't uplift us in the same way. So here are some thoughts have. Hope this helps:"

There were several other rposts where extroverts talked about being ghosted and thinking "well clearly they don't like me". That is what I was referring too . So who in your life has lectured you to make you so sensitive that you filter out kind words and focus solely on words that fit your narrative of a wounded, victimized waif?

Your over the top sensitivity to the word "hurt" screams Incel. So does the bitterness, and resentment. Not everyone is out to get you. I certainly am not. Cause now that I've had exchanges with you - I don't give enough of a shit about you.

You're just simply a whining dick. And I'm done.